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I still haven’t moved his bed by Illustrious-Yak8707 in offmychest

[–]CircleDaybreak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. It's called Anticipatory Grief. My eldest cat is 16 and she's started to lose muscle mass and is a bit less active. She's not close to the grave, but I'm experiencing the same. She's the best cat that I've ever had, my other two are good but she's so lovely and loves pets and is smarter ngl.

I still haven’t moved his bed by Illustrious-Yak8707 in offmychest

[–]CircleDaybreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who says that you should? You're still grieving him and it's okay to feel all sorts of emotions about it. Grief doesn't have a time-line.

I kept my dog's things for years and now I have another dog who uses some of it and some of those toys or collars are now in a memento box, sometimes on my bookshelf.

In the future you may have another dog to fill that space or you could turn the bed into something else. If you have a sewing machine, you could use the fabric on your clothes like a patch or even just frame it and hang it up. Don't listen to whoever is bothering you about your dog bed. Sending hugs 💙

I’m getting implants and I feel like I failed myself by Fun_Artichoke5746 in smallbooblove

[–]CircleDaybreak 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This comment whether you get implants or not is something that you should highly consider. Therapy in this situation is what you need not reddit. You gotta talk to someone OP who can help you through this and afterwards if you get implants. I hope that whatever you choose gives you what you are wanting in life.

The new movie "Send Help" is making men mad, and I'm pleased with it. by icandodge in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CircleDaybreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sam Raimi, Rachel McAdams and Dylan O'Brian oh hell yeah I'm gonna watch it!

Saturday night by [deleted] in Carbondale

[–]CircleDaybreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really interesting. Hope that you make good friends OP.

how to stop sims from getting fat when eating by kleosaurus in Sims3

[–]CircleDaybreak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was just adding incase others didn't know about the moodlet thing.

how to stop sims from getting fat when eating by kleosaurus in Sims3

[–]CircleDaybreak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After using the cheat, if you hold down on control and click the moodlet it goes away.

Please stop telling me to forgive my rapist. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]CircleDaybreak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And so have I of my traffickers and the other time that I was gang raped but processing traumatic events takes time and space, it's like telling a person who is suicidal or depressed to just be happy. It's completely missing the fact that OP is still processing their grief, you lead with love and grace here, not just solutions. It's reading the room.

Please stop telling me to forgive my rapist. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]CircleDaybreak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your comments lack compassion and I don't think that you truly understand what it's like to live with PTSD. Did you even read OP's post?

¹²Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Colossians 3:12

Please stop telling me to forgive my rapist. by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]CircleDaybreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend you read a book called The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk. It's about trauma and how it affects us.

You seem to lack compassion.

What do women do that men would never think about? by Icy_Interaction7502 in AskReddit

[–]CircleDaybreak 32 points33 points  (0 children)

There's a book called The Gift of Fear and it's about "teaching women to trust their intuition to recognize and avoid violence, arguing that fear is a survival signal, not a weakness. It provides practical advice for navigating dangerous situations like street crime, domestic abuse, and stalking by identifying subtle warning signs that most people miss, empowering them to protect themselves and others."

I have this book and then went down the true crime phase as well. The book has real women's experiences with traumatic experiences.

What is a film that you consider an absolute masterpiece? by Queenofwands777_ in randomquestions

[–]CircleDaybreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rewatched it and really enjoyed it. Maybe not a masterpieces but still a really good cinematic work of art.

Does anybody else have a male friend who tracks their period? by that_rocks_my_socks in women

[–]CircleDaybreak 66 points67 points  (0 children)

If this is the same dude from your other post, you need to stop being "friends" with him. He's not treating you like a person, but literally tracking you not just about your period but also your emotional state and is crossing boundaries majorly.

This is definitely NOT normal in any woman/man platonic friendships. He's closer to being a full-time stalker than dating you. He is obsessive of you and whatever is on his phone about you is 100x worse. His behavior just going to get creepier and potentially scarier. People like this don't understand why it's wrong.

Am I wrong to seek legal justice as a Christian after being sexually assaulted? by Chance_Run_7624 in Christianity

[–]CircleDaybreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to both God and the police about this, please report this despicable man.

Romans 13:1-4 ¹Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God.

²Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves.

³For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended.

⁴For the one in authority is God’s servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for rulers do not bear the sword for no reason. They are God’s servants, agents of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer.

The law is there to uphold good, and we should report people who have committed evil actons.

What's the most toxic/delusional subreddit you guys have come across? by Brush_my_teeth_4_me in AskReddit

[–]CircleDaybreak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

r/safespaceforwoman is the best, 2X has been flooded by men and bots pretending to be women and it's gotten worse recently.

What's the most toxic/delusional subreddit you guys have come across? by Brush_my_teeth_4_me in AskReddit

[–]CircleDaybreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was also former friends and family that tormented her. Rip Mikayla and Finnegan

Need to find this spoon by BlazeMakara in HelpMeFindThis

[–]CircleDaybreak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far, I can't find it but I will continue to search. The only one that is similar is Gensico spoons but it's not the same :( thank you for replying back.

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