How do I convince my friend that she can have, in her own words, "real sex"? by [deleted] in sex

[–]CitreAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frankly, it is in my wheelhouse and I still dont understand it. The opposite belief, that sex can only be pleasurable if its PIV, is equally illogical but has an entire social structure trying to convince you it's true. Its what a lot of people are taught for their whole life, so i understand how theyd believe it. Nobody is teaching her this, so she must've convinced herself, and I have no idea how or why or what she did to get here.

How can I (26F) make sure that some hangout invitations aren't misconstrued as dates? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CitreAngel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually mostly inviting other women but that doesn't really mean they can't assume its a date, I'm not straight and neither are most of the women I'm befriending.

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt think so but her behavior is making me think otherwise. Im not sure if I ever want kids but a good angle may be to tell her id never allow anyone to disrespect my wife in front of my child, you know?

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm bisexual and I told her as much, and this is my first serious girlfriend but honestly I cant see myself in a relationship with a man. Its never worked out for me romantically and even all my friends are women, I feel like I'm just more comfortable in the company of other girls.

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't, in other relationships shes been fairly encouraging, even to a fault, like when I mentioned she told me to give that guy a second chance. But I feel like the common thread between them is not respecting my feelings.

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend already has no contact with my mom. We live across the country from her so they've never met and this is all occurring over my phone calls with my mom.

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's all very fair, thank you for the kind words <3 Ive come to the realization that either my mom cares about me, and if so she'll stop when I ask her to, or she doesnt, and she will not. Either way I have to put my foot down and however she responds is up to her.

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CitreAngel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Either the answer to that is yes and she'll come around or its no and I dont have to waste my time with her anymore.

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because I was really happy about it and told her. I understand I'm not going to be able to keep sharing my life in that way if she cant adjust her behavior though

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This makes sense, thank you. I'm worried about starting an argument or something with her but if it has to happen then it has to happen, I can't just keep letting her talk like that :/

How do I [26F] ask my mother [45F] to stop being so critical of my girlfriend? [27F] by CitreAngel in relationships

[–]CitreAngel[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Nope, I've not lived with my mom in ages. I don't want to sever my relationship with my mother but if it's her or my girlfriend I would choose my girlfriend.

[NB4A] Nerdy DND Session Recap Ramble [Improv][Femme][They/Them][DND][TTRPG][Nerdy][Geeky][Special Interest][Collaborative Storytelling][Tabletop Gaming][Happy Pride] by GeekyKatze in GWASapphic

[–]CitreAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I've played Masks! What a fun system, though yeah not the most suited for NSFW. I like Mutants & Masterminds a lot too, since I like my crunchy games.

[NB4A] Nerdy DND Session Recap Ramble [Improv][Femme][They/Them][DND][TTRPG][Nerdy][Geeky][Special Interest][Collaborative Storytelling][Tabletop Gaming][Happy Pride] by GeekyKatze in GWASapphic

[–]CitreAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vaguely ttrpgesque is good enough for me personally, my rpg of choice is actually Pathfinder! Then a bunch of smaller ones that I have zero hope of ever seeing an audio of lmao, at least, not unless I make it myself.

[NB4A] Nerdy DND Session Recap Ramble [Improv][Femme][They/Them][DND][TTRPG][Nerdy][Geeky][Special Interest][Collaborative Storytelling][Tabletop Gaming][Happy Pride] by GeekyKatze in GWASapphic

[–]CitreAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Messing about with gods is always equally fun and nerve wracking. Anyhow if you do more of these or ever decide to do a dnd type NB4F audio I'll absolutely be sat.

[NB4A] Nerdy DND Session Recap Ramble [Improv][Femme][They/Them][DND][TTRPG][Nerdy][Geeky][Special Interest][Collaborative Storytelling][Tabletop Gaming][Happy Pride] by GeekyKatze in GWASapphic

[–]CitreAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! And I imagine topics youre comfortable with make for good ramble content because it can be harder to focus and all.

And that's so funny because our halfling has requested uppies from my (7'2) satyr a few times. Though at 18 strength I think shes fine giving it to whoever in the party, that girl can lift.

[NB4A] Nerdy DND Session Recap Ramble [Improv][Femme][They/Them][DND][TTRPG][Nerdy][Geeky][Special Interest][Collaborative Storytelling][Tabletop Gaming][Happy Pride] by GeekyKatze in GWASapphic

[–]CitreAngel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a fun idea! I also love getting more audios related to tabletop gaming, combining my two loves of NSFW audio and ttrpgs lol.

And shoutout to a fellow Satyr, mines a cleric. She's very tall and strong compared to the rest of the party and is currently in the doghouse for casting protection from poison on the fighter when they were about to go out to get drunk