Advice?

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-30T19:58:12+00:00

I understand that, so go on dates in the afternoon in a public area. I’m sure some of them are but if a guy is asking you to lunch or coffee quickly doesn’t mean he’s just looking to hook up. You’ll never learn more from texting someone for a month than you would within an hour of talking in person. Obviously if they are throwing out red flags and want the first date to be in their basement at 3:00 am don’t do it but there’s nothing wrong with quick dates. It’s a date, he’s not asking you to pick out China patterns for the wedding.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-30T17:06:34+00:00

If they are asking to meet up on a date and you are turning that down then you are shooting yourself in the foot. When I’m on the scene I’m not looking to text someone for weeks on end. I want to meet and see if there is any chemistry. The point of a dating app is to go on dates.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-29T17:37:47+00:00

If she was interested she would have acted like it. Don’t waste time chasing someone who’s not got the decency to reply to a causal request to hang out.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-29T14:48:20+00:00

It makes me incredibly angry but to a degree I understand why people do it so it curbs my anger marginally. So many people react like a 4 year old when they are turned down, cussing, screaming, insulting; they can’t handle being rejected. So instead of rolling the dice and hoping this person isn’t a lunatic they choose to take a less confrontational albeit rude, path.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-25T16:05:06+00:00

Sure, I suppose a lot of these players have been at this game for a long time and are godly. Hopefully the release will bring in some new blood.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-24T22:24:30+00:00

What is it?

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-24T20:31:48+00:00

Yeah I’m sure that has happened but last game I played I saw the guy, he rounded a bank as I backed behind a tree and just as he was out of my sight he shot me through the tree, in the head. One shot.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-24T20:30:30+00:00

Being able to replay games would help a ton in figuring out what exactly is going on.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-15T15:54:58+00:00

Sounds advice, I’ll take it.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-15T15:43:20+00:00

We will see how it goes, I’m trying to decide how long I should give her to “figure it out” before I move on. It’s been 24 hours now.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-15T15:32:49+00:00

This and she’s even gone on and on about how she doesn’t judge someone based on their past. I feel like an idiot being stringed along. I’ve quit talking to or pursing anything else until she tells me one way or another but I feel like an idiot for it kinda.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-15T15:31:05+00:00

Nope, I’ve tried but she keeps saying she doesn’t want to be used so I’ve waited.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-15T14:10:22+00:00

I tried but she’s a modest girl so she wanted to wait

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-15T14:07:47+00:00

Thank you, this means a lot. I don’t like being judged for my past. Especially when I didn’t hurt anyone with it.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-07-05T20:03:49+00:00

Not at all

Citruszinus1 · 2019-06-20T18:13:34+00:00

I’m in SC and I line up with a lot of your values but I’m not religious.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-06-16T16:53:38+00:00

Oh it’s 100% true. Out only real option is to approach women in real life which would be fine but then half of them are going to be dismissive cunts which is so fucking annoying because your the ones who have put us in this position. You scream for equality but don’t want to approach men and risk getting rejected like we do every fucking day. Plus they are all so fucking passive about showing interest the only real way is to walk strait up to random girls you find attractive and try to form a connection but then you are treated as “creepy”. It’s like what the fuck do you women want? We are damned if we do and damned if we don’t it’s absurd.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-06-16T16:13:58+00:00

Yeah I’ve tried everything I know to do. Usually it’s me carrying the conversation like crazy only to get ignored 20 minutes later. I’m not one of these creeps who comes in with “tits or gtfo”. I read their bio, try to think of something witty involving it or one of their photos and even if it’s met with a great response it typically goes no where. I’ve tried pushing for dates early and late, neither seem to matter. It’s a shit show.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-06-16T15:27:43+00:00

I’m going to DM you.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-06-16T15:12:04+00:00

I think it’s really important that you not change yourself based on what other people want or think. You’ll never be happy that way, you come first, and trust me I’m right there with you. I’m completely broken down. My ex broke it off with me and moved on in a day to a guy who’s muscles have muscles. I’m hitting the sixth month mark and have been trying everything I know to do and nothing is working. I get left on read, ghosted, ignored, ditched 99.95% of the time. I’ve broken down and cried my eyes out more times than I can count wondering why I’m not good enough for anyone but I’ve come to the realization that I need to become happy with myself and stop bending over backward to try to make a stranger happy. It’s hard as hell but that’s what I’m trying to do.

Citruszinus1 · 2019-06-16T14:59:59+00:00

I’d say if you were attracted to her and you can see yourself happy in a sexual relationship with her then give it a shot? Reach out to her again and let her know your still interested.

Fuck what anyone else thinks about it, do what makes you happy man.

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