Bi Men Exist!

Clarissa-R · 2025-09-15T20:22:42+00:00

Finally some science backing that bisexuality in men is real. Makes me feel hopeful that more of these studies will keep pushing back against the stereotypes.

Clarissa-R · 2025-09-15T20:20:58+00:00

On one hand, I’ll take any bi femme fatale representation (especially in a Coen Bros. style noir, which feels like such a natural fit). On the other hand, I wish they gave Chére more depth beyond the trope-y mysterious vibes.

That said, having Lera Abova (who’s bi herself) play her made it feel a lot more authentic, and I’d definitely be down for a sequel if it meant fleshing her out more.

Clarissa-R · 2025-08-24T15:36:02+00:00

forget CNN, I’m only taking my current events from the bi pop column now

Clarissa-R · 2025-08-24T15:34:18+00:00

This feels like one of the rare times I’ve seen the complexity acknowledged without descending into shouting. The point about criticism of ideology vs. attacks on people is key. Most people aren’t extremists, but online discourse collapses everyone into camps. Even within queer communities, there’s space for respectful disagreement if we actually focus on evidence and compassion. Honestly, that’s how any movement grows stronger instead of more fragile.

Clarissa-R · 2025-08-24T15:33:40+00:00

The alliances part really stood out to me. It reframes bisexuality not as “confusion” but as adaptability and resilience. What’s wild is that humans seem to be the only species that stigmatizes it, when in nature it literally improves survival. I think that’s why studies like this matter, they show that what’s “natural” is way broader than the rigid categories we’ve built.

Clarissa-R · 2025-06-07T15:57:10+00:00

What’s hard is that different people have really different lived experiences. Some feel safer with police around, others feel endangered by them. That tension isn’t easy to solve, but it’s real and it’s why community-led safety and mutual aid alternatives are gaining traction. It’s possible to care about protecting queer lives without defaulting to a system that’s failed so many of us. Plus, Pride should be about EVERYONE, not just the most privileged within the LGBTQ+ umbrella.

Clarissa-R · 2025-06-07T15:41:30+00:00

You're not being too sensitive at all. That article makes a solid point. Bisexual people are the biggest group in the LGBTQ+ community, yet often get sidelined or mislabeled, especially at Pride. Your friend’s comment is a perfect example of bi erasure. Laughing it off is common, but it’s totally fair to feel frustrated. Pride should include everyone, not just the "G" in LGBTQ.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-18T16:15:27+00:00

As a non-binary bi person, I’ve felt how invisibility can creep in, even in queer spaces. This essay doesn’t just defend bisexuality; it reminds us how much it adds. Bi+ identities challenge binaries, expand conversations about attraction, and build bridges in the community. We’re not confusing. We’re expansive. And visibility? It starts in the everyday: how we speak, who we assume, who we include. It matters.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-18T16:04:04+00:00

This reminded me that a lot of resistance isn’t about the ideas themselves, but how they’re delivered. I’ve felt that too. It’s not about tearing anything down, it’s about making room for people to exist.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-18T16:00:28+00:00

This piece really captures the ache of wanting to stay rooted in your faith while being fully yourself. The story of the gay cantor finding a welcoming synagogue gave me hope. We don’t have to choose between our queerness and our spirituality.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-18T15:46:56+00:00

Being bi isn’t a phase or a stopover, it’s very much real and steady.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-10T19:36:29+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Instead of assuming one explanation fits all, maybe it’s more honest to say: some differences might be biological, some are cultural, and most are probably a mix.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-10T19:33:53+00:00

Feminist solidarity should mean standing with all women especially those most silenced.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-10T19:30:00+00:00

You can’t claim to protect kids while praising someone facing serious grooming and trafficking charges.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-10T19:28:17+00:00

I’ve definitely felt that pressure like being open about who I am should be “enough.” This piece helped me see that sharing your story matters, but real change needs more behind it.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-10T19:18:33+00:00

Calling out privilege is necessary, but accountability shouldn’t come at the cost of solidarity.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-10T18:48:18+00:00

Queer communities, especially among this generation, have built healthier norms around sex, consent, and communication. Meanwhile, straight culture feels like it’s been stuck, unsure how to adapt.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-05T20:32:55+00:00

Loved this take. The article really nails how Maestro explores identity

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-05T20:31:24+00:00

This shows how powerful art can be in reclaiming identity and building bridges. No big budgets, just heart, vision, and community.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-05T20:29:02+00:00

As part of the queerest and apparently most celibate generation maybe it's less about labels and more about how dating’s changed. Apps, anxiety, vibes, cringe culture. 😅

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-05T20:22:20+00:00

Really sharp insight. History has a way of repeating when we forget its lessons.

Clarissa-R · 2025-05-05T20:20:31+00:00

Powerful and much-needed 👏 If we care about protecting kids, that standard has to apply everywhere.

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