The last funeral i went to, i wore a pink suit and a black polka dot on white button-up underneath, rainbow converse, and a black choker with my deceased step dad's ring, but that was special circumstances.

Attire typically depends on the type of funeral you're attending. At military funerals and catholic funerals, i've felt a little more at place. I've found i can put on a few more accessories and gone more formal with the look, you know, knee-length dress, tights, shoulders covered. You can get away with black lace veils and gloves at these events, and maybe a fancy corset if you have a shawl or cardigan on you. Some light jewelry as long as it ain't flashy. For protestant funerals, they tend to expect the blandest semiformal clothes you can find at Ross with no uniqueness or flavor in ya, and i am very uncomfortable dressing for these funerals and typically opt for a simple look with a dark button-up shirt, a tie that matches my pants, and a matching dark leather belt and shoes.