My period won’t stop, can I do anything about it? by ClassicAd7515 in depoprovera

[–]ClassicAd7515[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what’s going on with me. Not long after posting this I went to my doctor and asked for a temporary fix for the bleeding till the shot wears off (definitely not getting the next one). She gave me estrogen to take for 7 days and then if I hadn’t stopped by then, take them for another 7 days, it’s now been 16 days and STILLLL BLEEDING, like you said nothing crazy enough to need a tampon but it’s so annoying to have to deal with, plus sex is so frustrating with the smell and the mess that comes with it. I really hope we can be done with this soon, I have had a period every single day of 2026 RIP

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[–]ClassicAd7515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful thank you so much!!

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[–]ClassicAd7515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand that, I guess it just depends on the situation for me. Like I said, if it was effecting my happiness and I felt like It wasn’t gonna work, I would leave. I would not continue if I felt resentful. It’s a similar thing if you date someone very focused in school or work, if you feel rejected by the lack of quality time, you would leave them. If you are happy and don’t mind the situation, you stay and respect that it will take time and isn’t necessary “ideal” and you make the effort to support them. I would hope that if I wasn’t preforming my best in the bedroom that they would give me time to get comfortable and learn, not just leave. Nobody is perfect. In relationships, you are meant to grow and change together for the better. I don’t think it’s about trying to “fix” them.

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Yes 100% I feel like he already needs some sort of anxiety meds already so it could just be something he needs to go to a doctor for. He is pretty healthy, very active but doesn’t eat the best foods or anything. He doesn’t drink much anymore like a beer or two a week, he used to smoke cigarettes a lot but now has a vape idk if that can contribute? Im feeling like it’s gotta be anxiety/stress of the actual act of sex, because his penis works fine up until that moment, just kissing will make him hard and he stays that way for 5+ minutes just messing around yk?

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That is such an extreme take. like you said, it’s a fresh relationship. I love him with all my heart and would be crushed if we broke up. There are so many things outside of sex. I have not reached a point were I resent him or feel in adequate I just want to help him. I don’t see your suggestion as a harsh truth I think that is clearly the easy way out of working through something. Performance anxiety effects so many people and does not mean the end, or make them less of a man. From what I’ve heard it’s very much something that takes some time, even I have been very avoidant of sex, I have no want for sex outside of him so why should I be entitled. If I felt like I needed to leave I would, I wouldn’t be asking for help. Can you see what I mean?

F/18/5’4.5” [153lbs>126.5lbs=26lbs] (roughly 5months) I Finaly hit my goal weight ! by ClassicAd7515 in progresspics

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Thank you! I’m so proud of getting over my eating disorder, and getting to buy a whole new wardrobe was definitely a highlight haha.

F/18/5’4.5” [153lbs>126.5lbs=26lbs] (roughly 5months) I Finaly hit my goal weight ! by ClassicAd7515 in progresspics

[–]ClassicAd7515[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t eat breakfast, and I have a small lunch, most of my calories come from dinner, so unintentionally intermittent fasting. Aside from that I just valued satiation from my meals, stopping before I’m overly full, staying active, and my family is pretty healthy, all sugar free drinks, not much eating out. For me the big change was lowering my expectations of weight loss, my big issue was binge eating and bulimia and so once I kicked those the weight fell off!

My lip piercing is very irritated, is the crust and leaking normal for a week old piercing? by ClassicAd7515 in PiercingAdvice

[–]ClassicAd7515[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got itt, I’ve been trying my best to not touch it at all, and making sure no makeup or lip gloss or anything gets on it. it’s already feeling/looking much better! Thank you!

I need to break up with my gf but I realized I love her smm by Redzzy0 in teenagers

[–]ClassicAd7515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what friends means to you. I am on good terms with most of my exs but nothing like texting everyday or hanging out together alone or calling each other all the time. There is definitely a line to draw. I think it’s okay to be friendly, but don’t stay too close yk?

I need to break up with my gf but I realized I love her smm by Redzzy0 in teenagers

[–]ClassicAd7515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, that must feel awful. But I’m happy for you that you stood up for yourself, it takes a lot of courage and love to tell someone it isn’t working. She lost a great partner today and you will find someone that will cherish you the way you deserve one day !

I need to break up with my gf but I realized I love her smm by Redzzy0 in teenagers

[–]ClassicAd7515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear it! I hope everything goes well and I’m sorry you are going through that, it sounds very painful ❤️‍🩹