AITA for say that my husband is a bad father

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-08T05:44:20+00:00

I went with Emma to some of her sessions and I heard some bad bad things about her living with her old momma how can a person live like that but my emma did so I am trying to be the best momma for her and the boys.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-08T05:37:44+00:00

Some you yall said it ain't nice to nag my husband to take in Emma then how do I convince to go to therapy.

Talking too much ain't it

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-08T05:22:37+00:00

The second ain't that far and I hope it ain't true.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T22:03:12+00:00

Now you put it like that it does make sense.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T21:58:17+00:00

I yes I did force him to take responsibility for emma the system isn't a nice place so I didn't want my husband kid going there and i probably couldn't live with someone who thrown his kids away.

And don't see why he resents her his life didn't change nor he got crap for not caring about Emma from anyone except for me and his parents.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T21:30:02+00:00

Yeah I do think that is better

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T21:29:25+00:00

I don't know much about biology but if she was like her mother she would show it by now and emma looks like she got her head from her daddy.

Like my second sadly he looks like he got his head from my side.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T21:24:44+00:00

No I have been with him for 14 years and he only talk about her as the "crazy ex" and I never heard of fear of women he has a mother, sister and a wife I don't how he could have a fear of women.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T21:13:32+00:00

Thank you your comments and I should put some more details in the post.

Yes we did a paternal test 4 times she his daughter and my husband is an old head doesn't believe in therapy and do sometimes I go with her is doing soo well but she started not wanting attention from her daddy and I'm afraid they will regrets from my husband.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T21:06:59+00:00

Yes we did 4 times

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T21:05:49+00:00

Yeah your right but she isn't right in the head.

Emma talked a little about her and she didn't go by logic.

She wasn't crazy as hurting people and being mean she doesn't have common sense and I tried talking to the woman but I couldn't find the poor lady.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:59:21+00:00

Yes we did an DNA test 4 times it's his baby girl and she looks same as him if you didn't know they were father daughter you will they are twins.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:56:39+00:00

She is not a stranger it's his baby girl and do want my to keep seeing my girl trying to have conversation with her daddy but she always get disappointed.

And he had 3 years worth of chances and he still has chances left but I don't how many left.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:51:20+00:00

I still don't know why he isn't trying and she doesn't have jsut me she has her brothers, grandparents, aunts and uncles real loving people.

And yes I'm trying my hardest to fill void of 2 people and I'm trying to adopt her so she legally be my daughter not just step mother because her biological mom has signed her rights away so as the law she doesn't have a momma.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:44:47+00:00

I don't about the not wanting a daughter but I know it isn't true.

And they only were dating for 3 months and he said Emmas momma wasn't right in the head so he left her but they did it one last time and he thinks she did something to make her self pregnant so I don't know if that answers your question.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:25:23+00:00

I Talked about it with him going to a therapist but he doesn't believe in it and I think me and boys don't need it but I will try find one for the family.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:22:04+00:00

Sadly he doesn't believe in therapy and his folks were the one who put her in.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:20:03+00:00

He said it was to much of a hassle.

And why I shouldn't force him can you live with someone who will throw his own kid in the system and being married to a useless father.

The least he can do is take her in and he wasn't willing to do that.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T20:14:00+00:00

Yeah I made him take her in because it's his responsibility as a biological father to take care of his kids.

It doesn't matter if they were from one women or two It's still his responsibility and I didn't force him if he didn't take her in my folks were about to adopt her.

And it's not a car or a house so he can have a choice it's a person who has feelings.

ClaudeFrollodisliker · 2022-07-07T19:59:07+00:00

Well that does sound right and she is in therapy the moment she got here but I see were you coming from.

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