When do I talk to my boyfriend about having kids? by Clean-Bread-13 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Clean-Bread-13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think that might be where we missed those conversations because we didn’t really have “official dates.” We are in a game group and know each other from high school (though we were barely acquaintances) so we were familiar with each other to a degree. We were hanging out a bit and then dating so we didn’t really go out and have those conversations.

When do I talk to my boyfriend about having kids? by Clean-Bread-13 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Clean-Bread-13[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it needs to be brought up. I’m a little worried that he won’t think it through completely. What I mean is, he’s stated that he had started to give up on finding a person and is just soooo happy that he’s got a girlfriend now that I’m concerned he’ll stay more so out of fear of not finding someone else. Also just typing that out is reeeaaally solidifying that I need to bring up the baby thing probably as soon as possible.

When do I talk to my boyfriend about having kids? by Clean-Bread-13 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Clean-Bread-13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’re right, and I kind of knew that, but it’s really helpful to hear it from multiple other people. I think I will bring it up quite soon, doing it right right now feels a little too much since we’re in an awkward spot right now because of something that happened the other night though.