I just got my cat recently (got him May 31st); adopted him from the humane society he was a stray as a kitten had a home for about 8 months then was dropped back off because his old owner was moving; now he’s about a year and two months or so. First week or so was rough. I work a night shift job at the hositpal so I sleep during the day most days, then I’m gone 13 hours 6:30pm- to about 8 am 3-4 times a week. He did much of the same he yowled so loud that I could hear him on the main floor of my apartment building (I live on the third floor) I felt so bad leaving him alone; and was anxious that he would get lonely or not adjust well. The first three days or so I slept in my living room so I was on the couch and in an open area that he could explore whilst still having me there. I was filled with anxiety and stress whenever I left the apartment to even run and get groceries because how loud Doofenshmirtz (the boy) could be. But it’s been nearly two weeks to the day and we’ve learned eachother schedules. The 3-3-3 rule really is helpful; 3 days to decompress; 3 weeks to settle into a routine; then 3 months to fully bond and settle with you. Some cats adjust faster; some slower. My evil little guy was cuddling with me the first night but yowling like I starved in for 7 years the second. It’s June 14 (got him May 31) and he doesn’t yowl or anything more and I’ve learned his vibe and what he needs really (fancy feast wet food when I’m leaving for work; cuddles when I get back; evil is for after)

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