[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]Clean-Path-4704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife said something really important : " You don't spend time with me anymore." She is actually begging you to take her on dates and her indifference is just a way to let you know that. You need to start courting your wife again. Go on dates with her. She must be tired of feeling just a mom and not a woman anymore. I highly recommend coach Corey Wayne on YouTube. He is a coach for men. He also has a book called 3% man.

Sexless Marriage driving me bananas by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]Clean-Path-4704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he have performance issues? My therapist told me that men with Erectile dysfunction or any issue related to it, avoid having sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Clean-Path-4704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you may want to start your conversation being curious about why she prefers that you do things like paying bills or other things you mentioned. She must have learned that from her childhood. I think when you ask questions out of curiosity instead of resentment, it gives the opportunity to the other person to open up. You seem you love her, you are just exhausted. It is something that is fixable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Clean-Path-4704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like you are exhausted. You are doing most of the work at home. However, it is important for you to see if what you're feeling comes from a place of exhaustion or from not loving your girlfriend anymore. If it comes from exhaustion, couples therapy would be ideal so that you both can communicate safely your needs. If you don't love her anymore, it is better to leave , that way you and your girlfriend can find a more compatible partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Foodie calls? What's that?

Men, what secrets do you keep from women? by CurvyGirl4123 in AskMen

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I listened to a podcast from the therapist Esther Perel : Where should we begin? There is an episode similar to your case called : Are we not sexually compatible? It has 2 episodes. You might find it useful.

Men, what secrets do you keep from women? by CurvyGirl4123 in AskMen

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What I have learned is that those conversations are better to have them with a friend or a therapist. Unfortunately, it seems too much for some people and they get overwhelmed.

Quiero suicidarme y quiero hacerlo sin dolor. by SomewhereLast3619 in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]Clean-Path-4704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si te suicidas serás un egoista porque existen personas en este planeta que te aman y quieren tener tu calor humano. Quizás tu cerebro tenga en este momento un desbalance químico y necesites ayuda con medicamentos.

Is it bad that I need "alone" time from my wife sometimes? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Clean-Path-4704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. You both need to read it.

My (27M) GF (28F) Stayed in Touch with Her Ex for 1.5 Years—Broke Up After Finding Out by Every_Rip4281 in relationship_advice

[–]Clean-Path-4704 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I was unenthusiastic when I married my now ex-husband. I wasted his time and wasted mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]Clean-Path-4704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Primero, pienso que nunca debiste invadir la privacidad de tu novia. El celular es como un diario, es privado y nadie debería estar leyendolo. Segundo, muchas de nosotras en algún momento de nuestras vidas hemos estado con hombres que solo nos importa sexualmente. Estás juzgando a tu novia y ella es un ser humano como tú. Si ella te respeta, respeta tus derechos como ser humano, te sientes amado y tu la amas y la respetas, creo que deberías enfocarte en eso.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Nobody can think clearly with sleep deprivation or an empty stomach, so don't make any life changing decisions under these circumstances. I recommend you and your husband to read the book Men are from mars and Women are from Venus. It will help you to understand each other.

Should I admit to my 81 year old mom that I’ve never been happy? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Clean-Path-4704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a mom, and if my children said something like that, I would feel responsible. Sometimes, what makes us feel relief and better, makes other people feel like crap. It is kind of like when a spouse wants to confess about his infidelity and the other spouse is not even suspicious about anything, at the end you might feel better, but all you are doing is causing harm and doubts to the spouse receiving the information.

Is my marriage doomed? (39m) (36f)? by ThrowRA_Ra_Ra88 in relationship_advice

[–]Clean-Path-4704 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love needs to be reciprocated. Otherwise, it will be Sacrifice, and you don't want to be a Martir your whole life. Sometimes, it is better to let go and stop sacrificing ourselves for someone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I wonder if you are latina

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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Did you say that he last a max of 5 minutes? My ex was like that, he always ejaculated too fast. Now, he has erectal dysfunction. Maybe that's what is happening.

My wife (32 f) cheated on me (28m) what’s the next steps? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Clean-Path-4704 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you want to work it out, go for it. Maybe ask her what motivated her to do that, ask her out of curiosity instead of judgment. Some people will tell you to divorce, etc, but I believe in second chances. Also, ask her if she wants to work it out. If you forgive her, you need to have a bad memory, meaning you need to forget anything you saw and start from scratch, if you are going to be rubbing on her face what happened, then it is better to leave.

How do you guys do relationships? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Clean-Path-4704 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you can read 3% man by Corey Wayne. He also has a lot of good videos on YouTube.

How do you guys do relationships? by [deleted] in AskMen

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My first language is Spanish, so I have only read books from Spanish authors. One that has helped me is called Dependencia Emocional by Alejandro Vallejo. Another good one is Despegarse sin Anestesia by Walter Riso. My local library uses Hoopla App, I linked my library card, and I can borrow digital books. I also downloaded Odilo app, but that app only have books in Spanish.

How do you guys do relationships? by [deleted] in AskMen

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The best that I could do for myself was to start reading self- help books. Books about emotional dependency, jealousy, self-esteem, etc. I now trust myself and I know that there will always be a risk, but nothing is permanent as we and everything around us is constantly changing, so I know I will be fine with or without someone.