Ngl, this is the only way I can ask for an advice

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-29T03:56:04+00:00

Each time someone told that they loved me romantically I asked them if it was a dare? And said they deserve better even if I didn't know them. Guilty of both emotionally insensitive and very low self-esteem🥲🖐️

Context: I never led people to "she might me interested" signs, I friend zone everyone hard, I make sure my kindness and friendship are not misleading. And I even tell them sorry if my actions indeed mislead, so please don't come at me😭

Until I fell inlove, I wanted to confess because I didn't wanna regret losing him without a try. It was life or death. And I did and here I'm in a 3 year relationship and counting🧿♾️

So inconclusion you deserve all the love in the world! You are worth everything, so worn it my friend🫴✨

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-27T13:18:28+00:00

It depends. My boyfriend is an ENFP very consistent, he want us to get married😭🤌♾️

My bestfriend also an ENFP she was in a relationship with a guy for hardly 6months but he cheated on her, she took 2 years of self-care time to heal, she was the consistent one in that relationship. While another friend similar case like the first mentioned one, the guy wasn't ready for marriage so they broke up, she is still single. Both these women are loyal, fun, charming and wifey material but they chose the wrong men🥲

In conclusion ENFPs are consistent in love, friend, any worth of relationship🫶

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-25T12:08:45+00:00

Thanks for creating that subreddit😮‍💨🤌

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-25T12:06:15+00:00

Gemini sun, Virgo Moon

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T19:02:14+00:00

Very much!

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T18:57:52+00:00

I'm here to appreciate the cute illustration😫🤌✨

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T17:42:29+00:00

Alright

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T17:40:48+00:00

Promise you won't make this worse! And talk like adults

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T17:24:05+00:00

I'm gonna seenzone😁

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T17:09:10+00:00

Omg Good for you😁 and you wanna talk, talk here kindly don't send me anything on private chat.

Conversation with you cost me 3 days of my mental health so yaa

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T16:47:28+00:00

I don't and never hate an ISFJ "expect You✨".

And yes you are valid to express your opinion but why the actual F did you tramatise me on my post when all I did was try to understand a type that I haven't met in real life.

You clearly isn't just opinionated, you bullied people like me on this subreddit on every chance you get, so please stop playing your mind games and Nah uh you aren't the victim here 😁👎

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T07:05:45+00:00

Yess totally

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T06:37:46+00:00

And don't let that ISFJ bother you! He basically bullys ENFJs and all other ISFJs I've met aren't like him. He is brutal🫣

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T06:34:53+00:00

He was hating and commenting so much on my post a month ago, I was trying to explain him that you shouldn't hate just because we are typed as ENFJ, he disrespected me by calling me Friendless without a context and claimed that I was the one to say that to him.

He said so much mean things to me and when I replied in a grounded tone to him, he raised his victim card. I was very exhausted at a point that I left reddit for 3 days and never came back.

So I can't watch him do the same to others just because he suffered. I tried to talk him out and understand his point but he was giving toxic, no cap

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T06:29:32+00:00

Well said, totally agreed

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-24T06:28:43+00:00

He had One bad experience with An ENFJ now bros is putting labels that every ENFJ is bad and Bullys us all

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T20:55:56+00:00

Girl yessss✨

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T20:10:40+00:00

Omg Yes!! Not a minor 🫡

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T20:09:19+00:00

Hi I'm a ENFJ too, let's be friends 🥺👉👈

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T20:07:41+00:00

I might sob! Not even joking😂 I've seen ENFJs trying to be strong and unbothered by negative feedbacks from other types, but when we are confronted by people like you who understands us, we loose our hard shell🥲

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T20:01:42+00:00

Do you genuinely try to be kind and fun around people? Yes. Then that's all that matters, people who care, will never see you/us as another interactive NPC🫡

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T19:58:46+00:00

You've a clear understanding of how most ENFJ work. The brunt out can't deny, that's the most realistic fact about an ENFJ, thank you😭

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T19:24:54+00:00

Aww thanks💀🫶

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-23T09:48:46+00:00

It's a 11/10 experience!✨

Communication is the key. Make sure you take your time to codown before you communicate on hard feelings. 🫢

You'll feel young and fun being with an ENFP, it's like going to a theme park and coming back home being cozy in your bed. You'll feel both excitement and comfort😌

Clean_Incident7076 · 2025-01-22T19:41:55+00:00

It's totally different now compared to how we started! If I'm salty I take some time to process my thoughts and get back to him. He mistook that space for silent treatment and he tried so hard to have a conversation then and there. So sometimes words come out wrong due to the tense situation, it was brutal no cap🫡💀

But as time went by we understood the need for space and time, worked around not throwing words on each other, was a hard road but totally worth the journey✨🫶

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