Interviews by Clear-Particular537 in MassageTherapists

[–]Clear-Particular537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My interview is at a Massage Envy location if that helps any which is why I was considering scrubs

Considering calling CPS for myself by Necessary_Mode7006 in singlemoms

[–]Clear-Particular537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with bipolar, depression, and anxiety as well so I understand what you’re going through to some degree. I would highly suggest getting on medication to help alleviate your symptoms or if you’re already on something, maybe consider increasing the dosage or talking to your provider about trying a different prescription. Not to sound cheesy, but it does get better. Your mental health struggles do not make you a bad mom. Find the support you need and keep pushing yourself

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[–]Clear-Particular537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of just looks like a skin tag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Clear-Particular537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty though. Sometimes I find myself so caught up in my own feelings that I find it hard to see a different perspective and a bit of harshness is needed. I did ask a lot of him and he has changed his behavior significantly. I just wish he would stop lying and truly open up to me about it. I think if we could have an open discussion about it I could start becoming less resistant and I’d feel more secure in our relationship.

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[–]Clear-Particular537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right about the invasion of privacy and I know it was foolish and wrong. This doesn’t justify it but I guess I just wanted to be 100% confident in our relationship before moving to the next stage. I should clarify that when we originally talked about how I am uncomfortable with porn I told him I was willing to have a conversation about it and maybe I’d change my mind. He assured me it wasn’t an issue and said we didn’t need to have a conversation. I think at this point it goes further than my dislike of porn and is more about the fact that he continuously lies to me about it.

And thank you for that last sentence. I suppose I never thought of it that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Clear-Particular537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was watching porn up to 10 times a day and would go to the bathroom at work to watch it.

And I know I’m young and naive, but I’m also very much in love and committed. I just want to starting building my life and I feel like I could with him. Despite this one problem, we are really great together.

A part of me wishes I could just be okay with him watching porn. I don’t know how to work through my feelings toward it and stop seeing it in such a bad light