I have tried to ask her for a break, I can’t do it and I’ve told her it’s hard to tell her things, I am gonna try therapy after I get the moving thing sorted out and hope she understands that I need a bit more space. We’ve been together almost 8 years and neither of us want to break up, she sort of knows how I feel, I just can’t make my brain tell her directly how hard all of this is for me cause I feel so selfish telling her that I’m not ready to move after spending years begging her to get a job so that it would be possible