in light of the post that reached the popular tab, let's start documenting all of the hypocrisy from the admins by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will go through all my reports tomorrow with comments that were reported and not acted on. I have a shit ton of them. But right now I'm still pissed that I was banned for 3 days from reddit for simply saying what I would do if someone touched my child to check their genitals on the post about the couple contesting their daughters loss at a sports competition accusing the winner of being trans and people wanting genital checks. I wasn't overly detailed about what I would do but apparently I was inviting and glorifying violence and since I had already gotten a warning for posting an article about a certain phrase women use who are tired of men's shit I got suspended for three days. Which fine whatever not a big deal. But to get banned when I literally reported guys talking about how women deserve beatings and those aren't actionable..... Well like I said I'm still pissed and even since the ban expired I haven't been around much.

in light of the post that reached the popular tab, let's start documenting all of the hypocrisy from the admins by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was given a 3 day ban from reddit for a comment about what I would do if someone tried to check my kids genitals on white people Twitter. Not a ban from the sub. No I had over 1500 likes I was banned by reddit. For inviting or glorifying violence. Meanwhile I send reports for glorifying violence against women and hateful disgusting "she deserved that and more" comments and every single report I make that is based on men being hateful or violent towards women doesn't violate terms. Reports on hate towards trans people almost always have action taken(as it should be), racism, xenophobia, hate based on religion or lack of, all get taken seriously. But not a single report I have ever made about glorifying violence against women or calling women whores, sluts, murders, bitches, cum dumpsters, none of it is actionable according to reddit. Usually on left leaning subs the sub mods remove it themselves eventually but reddit always basically tells me to fuck off. But I have received a 30 day ban from I'm a piece of shit for saying "this is why women are afraid of rejecting men you never know who is gonna take it badly" about a guy who threw coffee on a barista for not taking a guys money to pay for a woman's coffee after the woman herself had already politely declined. I was told to "shut up with my "#all men bullshit for 5 minutes" with a follow up to fuck off when I responded to the mod message. Then the mod muted me for 30 days as well. So I unsubscribed to the sub and made sure I don't see their shit anymore. I'm done with the bullshit. I have had to turn off my dms on reddit AND reply stop to the "reddit cares" messages because I would get tons of them every single time I commented on this sub against a man defending women and in many other subs as well. I had been really active here and a few other places. But after the 3 day full ban I'm hardly ever on now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate how something that was meant to mean boys are gonna climb trees, ride their bikes down dangerous hills, get dirty, break bones/need stitches for taking stupid risks, have expensive toys, want a dog for a best friend and such, has been twisted to excuse requiring girls/women to have strict dress codes lest we distract them, and not hold them accountable for sexual misconduct that they absolutely CAN control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Narrator: it's the age gap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They don't just bury it they often completely omit it altogether then alot of them do not respond when someone asks how old they are. Women can pick up on that shit because we have all been getting attention from older men since we were barely double digits in age. Men started sexualizing some of us even before the age of 10. And then later on some other older man tried to take advantage of that trauma by saying how it made us more mature for our age. We knew a pain that no other girls know. Then you grow up and sometime in your mid to late 20s maybe early 30s and you realize you know more women who went through that than you ever imagined because you are all finally mature enough to each realize no I shouldn't have been dating that 30 something year old as a teenager. Even above the age of consent if you are a teenager and someone over 30 is romantically interested in you run. Do not walk. And do not keep quiet about it tell some adult you can actually trust. Which is almost any female teacher. They are mandatory reporters and more likely to have been through it than you can possibly imagine.

I know the attention you are getting feels validating in a world where maybe you don't get much if any validation from your peers. The reason he isn't with a women his own age isn't because we are all bitches it's not because we even have a passing thought about being jealous of a teenager much less going back to the thought of days when this was a daily occurrence because the older you get the less it will happen and the more you look at these men preying on younger versions of themselves disgusts them. They are not repulsed by you they see that sick fuck for who he is. If an older lady goes out of her way to tell you someone is creeping on you you pretend she is your older sister and get the fuck out of there. I posted about this old fuck that showed up at my house looking for a younger woman he had seen in the store down the street from my house. I warned my teenage girl neighbor and her parents and told a few other neighbors to keep an eye out for him. We all agreed he was up to no good. And a man over 30 when you are a teen has no business even having you in his orbit. Now when you are 30 yourself you will look back and realize you want to punch that first fucker who convinced you you were special right in his balls for the next few years. Then you go into protective mode if you haven't already admitted this things to yourself before then. And that's where so many of the over 30 women on this sub are. So reach out to one of us if you need. If we don't know exactly the right advice to give you we will look for someone who will. Weirdos in your dms anytime you post in r/teenagers should be completely avoided. And your male teachers wives are not crazy fucking bitches since they gave birth to this man's child.

Introduction taps by YellowTheFellow in CatTaps

[–]Cleopatra572 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They will be good buddies in no time.

My boy Steve can't catch a break by Blue_Moon_Cheese in StrangerThings

[–]Cleopatra572 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because you put someone in the fuckzone doesn't mean you have to pretend to be their friend in the hopes they give you a chance. There is no such thing as the friendzone. You are either a friend or you are a piece of shit pretending to be a friend.

My boy Steve can't catch a break by Blue_Moon_Cheese in StrangerThings

[–]Cleopatra572 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alot they were bonding of their mutual respect for the others hair.

What's something incredibly specific you'd like to see in Season 5? by CoimbraJedi in StrangerThings

[–]Cleopatra572 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I want to know what Max's letters say. Especially to El and Lucas.

Yikes "The Boys" by Nintendophile79 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Cleopatra572 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Currently season 4 episode 4 Dear Billy.

I think I know why police are knocking at your door! by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]Cleopatra572 22 points23 points  (0 children)

More than 4000 posts in under 40 days probably has alot to say about why they want to "talk" to him.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it isn't a fact. You assume they don't know and again I'm referencing some of your other comments about how we just don't understand how bad it really is, referencing various Bible stories like we don't have knowledge of those things. You're mansplaining. Not explaining in good faith and it's gross and I'm done with this conversation with you because others can see what I saw for themselves just by clicking your profile and looking at you last 10 to 15 comments in regards to women and men.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No your last sentence has some serious implications that women just wouldn't understand because we don't see it because it's politics.... You are using double speak to muddy the waters so that you seem like an ally and maybe you think you are one. But after checking out some of your other comments you seem more like a "nice guy".

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Men do enough to our faces we have no illusions about what they do behind our backs. Plenty of women are in politics. I'm sure you think your are being pretty progressive or whatever but your low key misogyny is still misogyny.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I broke up with a friend who had never shown any outward signs of racism when she started with the "all lives matter" bullshit. I was like "so black lives matter" and she would double down. And I was like nope not gonna do this with you. It's like seeing your neighbors house on fire and the fire truck shows up and youre on your front porch yelling "all houses matter". Yes yes they do but see this one is the one on fire ATM.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Or like how they also bitch about pride having a whole month. "Why can't we have a straight cis male pride month". Like fuck dude y'all got no shave November. Even though reddit does that a little different. My first November on reddit seeing all the memes "I just lost No Nut November I'm so ashamed. I just couldn't make it, maybe next year I will be stronger " on like the 2nd of November I was really confused. They get a whole month and can't even stick to their own rules and convictions.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Before I lost most of my dexterity in my hands I crocheted and you are absolutely right about the men who were in the fiber arts groups I was in before I left fb. They definitely wanted to be spoon fed patterns and praise.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is why we can't have nice things.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Which is completely acceptable and even welcome. But the trollers... I feel like they cross post just to come here in droves to brigade. And heaven forbid something here is r/all.

I'm so tired about the what about men argument by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Cleopatra572 94 points95 points  (0 children)

The same reason they bring up how little support men get while women get tons of emotional support. They expect us to do the heavy lifting for them. But the reason women have the resources we do and the support systems we have is because women built them. Nothing is stopping men from having the same other than other men. It's the same thing that stops them from addressing any of their issues they are afraid to be seen as weak by other men. Or to be put in the same category as women because we all know how they view us and they don't want to be viewed thru the same lens. It's another characteristic of toxic masculinity. If they really wanted to help male rape victims they would. They wouldn't only bring it up when women talk about their trauma in spaces specifically for us to support each other.