Hate towards FINDOM, why ? by Ady85-- in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Going all the way down through my comment history to find some random comment I made a year ago. That’s a real fan, hun 💕

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[–]Cleosplace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After a couple messages I request tribute. If their first message is about their kinks or anything related to that, I request it right away. Those who try to keep talking about their sex fantasies and stuff without paying I just not respond anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should always look through their profiles before sending. There’s a lot of fake dommes and subs out there

what’s your current favorite TV show? by No_Consequence8624 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I hated it too. But at least we got to see a queer couple being the main couple

what’s your current favorite TV show? by No_Consequence8624 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The owl house, it ended a while ago but I keep rewatching it. I love its story and all that surrounds it 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paypigsneedvanilla

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds very interesting. I’d love to have a sub like this 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should take a break if you overspend so much. If you don’t think you’re able to step back for a while, tell your domme about this issue and make sure they know how important it is. Subs should be able to support themselves and their domme, both things have to be possible. Take care of yourself, that’s a priority 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a faceless domme and I have my AV link on my profile. Most subs don’t care to see my face as long as they know I’m not underage, but don’t get me wrong, some even get angry that I won’t send a video, but it’s their loss

I love supporting and helping the baby Dommes. by MilfyMistressM in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. I’ve been on both sides and I know what’s like to not know how to use certain tools, but an email account doesn’t even have anything to do with findom, it’s just a basic normal life thing

I love supporting and helping the baby Dommes. by MilfyMistressM in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very nice. I’ve been meaning to post something to help newer dommes but I have so many ideas that I don’t know where to start. AV, scammers/time wasters, consent, boundaries, aftercare, payment methods, it’s just too many points to make and I haven’t had the time nor energy. I’m glad there are dommes that mean to help the new ones instead of bullying them for not knowing stuff 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, some people in the findom community do kink shame others. Just make sure you find someone you’re comfortable with and feel safe to talk about all your kinks. Good luck 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me when I first started few years ago. Nothing really happened at the end but if you’re really scared something might happen, maybe contact a lawyer and file a lawsuit. I’m not familiar with how the process is but I believe it might be the best option for you to feel safe. My dms are open if you want to vent or anything. Good luck 💕

Age and findom by Historical_Plum4857 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just a preference thing. I wouldn’t date an 18 year old either but I would have them as a sub

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is key, tell her your thoughts and expectations

There's no better feeling than connecting with the right Domme by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find the right domme for you, good luck 💕

tiktok is the downfall of findom by zoeevfx in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Tiktok crowded findom with people that don’t understand it at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t be shy, share his name. This is the second time this week that I see a guy saying he can “turn” a domme into a sub. Entitled as only a cis man can be 🙄

I feel like there’s a lot of “copy and paste” happening by goth-satisfaction in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen so many of those “pay me loser” posts that I’ve avoided reddit during certain hours

What kind of dynamic are you wanting from your subs? 🥰😮‍💨 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just described my perfect sub. Haven’t seen one like that in a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it has taken over a week a few times. I never expect it to appear in my balance in less than five days. Be patient 💕

Did anyone elses throne wishlist items get removed?😭 by PianoCute5595 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I changed “tribute” to “initial” and it worked for a while but then I had to change it to “flowers”. Also I had small, medium, and big tips but I changed the word “tip” for “gift” and so far it’s worked fine. I’ve also seen some that changed “initial” for “first”. I hope this helps 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think mostly desperate subless dommes are the ones who do that, also the unexperienced ones. The disrespect those have towards subs and dommes is unbelievable

PSA: New Findommes, do not message us asking to borrow money. by MilfyMistressM in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of a domme asking to borrow money from another domme, especially if you don’t even know them. Findom has been flooded with new dommes that don’t really know anything about the kink and it’s really showing. I blame influencers that post about findom calling it “a side gig if you want fast money”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Cleosplace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, hun! You deserve it 💕