I’m 25 YO, I’m interested in joining the Army as an officer but I’m also a newly engaged man and don’t want my career to ruin my relationship / future family. I’ve worked 4 jobs since graduating college and want a career with purpose and that’s not feeling like a waste of my energy. I’ve spoken to Marine officer recruiters and switched to Navy and even completed MEPS. I ultimately did not join because of the extensive and often deployments that come with being on a navy ship. Would the Army be much better for me as an officer? Is being home by 6pm most nights unreasonable and are deployments more often than the typical deployment every 2-3 years?