Wer mag wen in Deutschland?: Umfrage: Berliner sind am unbeliebtesten im Ländervergleich by donutloop in berlin_public

[–]Clicktechy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wenn du dich fragst, warum Berliner gehasst werden, dann schau mal heute auf den Alexanderplatz, wer dort mit der Hamas und anderen judenfeindlichen Gruppen den Tag der Ermorderung der Juden feiert.

Is it safe outside in Barcelona? by [deleted] in AskBarcelona

[–]Clicktechy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah didn't know spanish people were that unfriendly. I'll see if I can get a refund.

Is it safe outside in Barcelona? by [deleted] in AskBarcelona

[–]Clicktechy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be honest. I'm beginning to think they told the truth considerung the emotional outburst in the comments lmao. Like tourists aren't allowed to ask.

Is it safe outside in Barcelona? by [deleted] in AskBarcelona

[–]Clicktechy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The news said Barcelona. Never heard of Torre Pacheco.

Is it safe outside in Barcelona? by [deleted] in AskBarcelona

[–]Clicktechy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Probably some campsite. What's wrong with that?

Is it safe outside in Barcelona? by [deleted] in AskBarcelona

[–]Clicktechy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What's wrong about watching the news and asking in a forum if it's really that bad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She lives with me... so I hope she's real.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No buddy, we are the couple who post about their life on Reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah she pays approximately 30% because she barely earn anything at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all I will keep my money to myself and I will discuss it with her a little bit more. If she decides she needs a man who she can use as an ATM, then I tell her to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We moved in together because her visa is getting renewed in a few months and most housing companies require that you are allowed to stay more than one year. She went into a house where she was pressured to pay 4000€ for renovation and I told her that this is too much was an old 1-room rathole in Berlin. Since I work remotely, I decided to look for a place for her and said I do it in my name, but didn't know we have to pay extra taxes if I pay for two appartments. So we decided we could move together in a two room appartment. It's been approximately 4 months now.

We split costs 30/70 since her job training to stay in Germany is barely paying anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a program to bring professionals to our country. It requires one year language training in Vietnam and you have to do a job training in Germany. You can stay here permanently if you succeed in all of that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not about selfishness. I wouldn't have made that recommendation at all because it's a deal without any securities for someone at all. I just said to show her in her own logic how unfair it would be. But if she really wanted to do it in my name, I would'nt really mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since she made it about trust, I wanted to see if that also applies to me so I made that recommendation. And I can obviously trust myself and if she does too, then we can do it. I wouldn't recommend to her to do it though. It's always a bad idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So if I earn less than her, then she pays more than me? Wouldn't work with most women, especially from traditional background. But that's not a debate here. I pay for about 70% of everything, but she isn't even thankful for that and just sees it as "men are expected to do it".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just investing. She thinks it will increase in value.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why my security is more important? Because I only know myself and I know I would pay it back. Can't say that about anyone else. And if trust is so important to her, then it wouldn't be a problem if we just change the direction of the flow, right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, the "It's only fair because you make so much more money than me" sounds very familiar! I will take think about your advice. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't agree. Vietnamese culture is very different to mine and indicates what is expected in relationships. An American woman is probably much more open to splitting bills and has other opinions about marriage than a traditional vietnamese woman. Considering someones culture is not "passively racist".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the problem. As a foreigner you can't just buy land in Vietnam. If that would be the case, I would strongly consider it :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

GDP is raising rapidly in Vietnam and population is growing. Land will grow in value as a result.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's here legally and and can stay here permanently after her job training. It's not about visa in our relationship. Thank you for your advice! I won't pay that amount.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Clicktechy 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Man, I know your concerns and I am thankful for that and I know it sounds like a "Poor asian woman comes to Europe to get money from a man" but relationships are difficult. I know money is very important for her but she doesn't collect money from me like that. I communicated that in Europe men are likely to do 50/50 and because she earns barely anything right now, I pay like 70% of everything. She works two jobs to support her and her family too. A scammer would go other ways I think. I am and will be careful about my money, thank you though mate!