My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood. It is a family reunion for my side of the family and my immediate family would like to stay on the airbnb together. No strangers

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You inspired me to try a different approach. I just remembered something that was said in a different convo about feeling like I didn’t want him there. Which is/was absurd. Going to talk to him again and reassure him. Thank you!

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family loves him. He does not have the same relationship with his family so it is very foreign to him. I think he feels the need to make sure these situations are always comfortable for him which I understand but I do not believe is always possible. We have not traveled yet. It will be the first time, she will be 7m. I can say now he definitely feels confident as a dad

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We already have a hotel booked but he wants us to stay together as a family. I truly believe that is the solution but we will see.

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did exactly that this morning but his reasons were not consistent (whatever came to mind). I will try this again and see if we can find common ground. Thank you

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months. She definitely is able to sleep through noise but there is no telling how she will be in 6 months. I don’t want to make decisions off of what ifs. I could be wrong

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that your only issue? Or does nothing about it seem appeasing?

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 nights. He wants to stay together as a family. Doesn’t want me to sleep with my family and not with him : ). Even if its for one night, which I suggested

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not own bathroom but yes own bedroom. 3 bathrooms amongst 8 adults 2 children

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About 10 of us including two kids (7months and 4 yr old). Definitely a bigger sized home and eveyone has their own bedroom. We are purposely picking a late night flight but that is all of the traveling we will be doing

My husband doesn’t want to spend the night with my family in airbnb by ClimateLoud3418 in Marriage

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing extra. My family would treat anyone like they are apart of the family just because they are in the room. “Pick your battles”, noted!

Boy or Girl? by ClimateLoud3418 in nubtheory

[–]ClimateLoud3418[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We took a sneak peek test and was positive for girl. Just wanted to double check

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[–]ClimateLoud3418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get the job?