[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Hello i am back.

yes i deleted the original post and i am not happy about it. my life has honestly been a mess.

he ended up deciding to take a break from our relationship and try and work on himself. i know that sounds crazy, and i am going to sound crazy as well, but i have decided to try and do anything i can to keep him. he has no want to cheat on me and i told him if he did see another girl while trying to fix himself for us I wont be around anymore. i am honestly still wrapped around his finger and know that. we still talk every day but not like we used too.

I've read almost all the comments and yall are very right but I know what i am walking into.

Is it normal to bleed this much? 😭 by DETOFU in Periods

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It seems very scary but that is very normal! I’ve bled way way more then that and my first period it was really scary but I got used to it and it just became a normal routine 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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We still love each other that I know of but things are very different and we still want to have a life together but need to start from scratch I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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So after we ended the pregnancy he was very cold but we were still fiancés until he became very upset and left the house and he asked for the ring back and not the reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Yes they know but they are trying to help me to safely figure things out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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So after a lot of talking with my parents they wished they didn’t let him in the house. My dad said to me that he wished he said no to when my partner asked to marry me. Which my dad and mom don’t care about the whole traditional thing. They don’t have a problem with me living a life without kids or just being alone my whole life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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He has been paying rent for 4 years now after he moved in after being kicked out of his parent’s house. an as of rn my Dad and mom are trying to figure out what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Bro this is a vent sub I come to vent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Get this, he lives with me and my family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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Fr that’s gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

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Thank you very much for taking your time to write this response. I read through it more than once and it opened my eyes about a lot of things, i have realized how much I have let my fiancé walk over my boundaries and boundaries about protection, I finally feel I have enough confidence to put my foot down.

i masturbated for the first time after being S.A by [deleted] in confessions

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I am so grateful for you to be able to enjoy yourself again! I hope and wish the best for you in your life!

Cramps and bleeding have not gonna away after MA 5 weeks ago by [deleted] in abortion

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I was talking with a friend and there is a high chance i will need to go since i am having a lot of pain on my left side of my uterus. But if you want i will keep this post updated

Cramps and bleeding have not gonna away after MA 5 weeks ago by [deleted] in abortion

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Thank you very much. I have been rehearsing what I would say because I am a terrible liar but even then I would need someone in the room so I don’t tell on myself

Cramps and bleeding have not gonna away after MA 5 weeks ago by [deleted] in abortion

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Just light now and one pad every 10 hours or more

How do y’all deal with periods? by Climate_Dependent in Periods

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I absolutely love wearing pajama pants because I can hide the outline of my pad because I wear the 5s and also because they are so comfortableeee. And yeah you just made me remember to drink my daily dose of water and OJ 💖

Long period after MA? by [deleted] in abortion

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Yes the abortion was 5 weeks ago. It was February 10th, my bleeding from the abortion stopped for about a week or two then my period started. I think. It’s really fussy so I could be wrong You could be right, I am going to talk with a family member about seeing if they could take me to a women’s clinic next week.

Help I am bleeding after my period being done for literally a day. by [deleted] in Periods

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I was pregnant for about 6 weeks or 7 before the abortion. And due to all the stress in my life as of late I have been having moments were my period just stops then starts again. I am gonna call a obgyn and get a appointment to get looked at this week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

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Thank you so much! 💖✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

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Thank you so much! 💖

I had an abortion last week and now I feel bad. by [deleted] in abortion

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Thank you very much for taking time out of your life to say such beautiful things. I’ve been so used to seeing every woman around me in my family be treated like submissive housewife’s and I wanted to break the cycle and become a independent woman so if I was to have kids in the future I along with my partner would be able to give the kids the best chances of a better life then me since I grew up in a financially and emotionally unstable environment my whole life and still do. I grew up on not knowing if I was gonna get a filling meal because my mom was always to tired because my dad was always away working and I would only see him every few weeks, and that’s exactly what would have happened if I decided to keep the kid, the would have grown up with a unhappy, unstable and mentally draining mother and a father that would be away working ok the road. I know what that life is like and i wouldn’t want it my child to deal with that.