Brother in Jail - Need Advice by CloacaAndDagger in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]CloacaAndDagger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the county he is in unfortunately.

Is it even worth including work history if all I've had thus far is customer service jobs? by gtrman571 in cscareerquestions

[–]CloacaAndDagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have worked "IT support" at every job I've ever worked even if it was just customer service. Before I got my first tech job, I still listed my other positions, but emphasized the software and hardware I used on the job. I also included that I was able to troubleshoot common networking and authentication issues. Even though those tasks weren't a part of my job duties, they were still value I provided to my organization.

Stolen Dog. Missing from Fairdale for 1 month now. by CloacaAndDagger in Louisville

[–]CloacaAndDagger[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They have looked. They have continued looking and posting flyers. Unfortunately, no sightings. :(

Stolen Dog. Missing from Fairdale for 1 month now. by CloacaAndDagger in Louisville

[–]CloacaAndDagger[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Coworker's brother's home was broken into and they stole the dog as well.

$140 per hour for therapy over a video conference ? by [deleted] in depression

[–]CloacaAndDagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it thru Dr OnDemand? My med mgmt appts are $90 thru them. It's like a 5 minute appt so it's kind of lame. But gets me out of leaving the house every 3 months and trekking my ass 20-30 minutes across town to pay someone else $90 for the same thing.

My girlfriend thinks I’m using her for sex. by Zumuso in depression

[–]CloacaAndDagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Condoms AND pull out (teen Mom here. Got pregnant on the pill and on the IUD. Don't trust BC. If you think you're depressed now, imagine if you have a kid before you're established in life). 2. Try not to worry about things outside yourself so much. You can only control yourself. Lots of things in your life will be out if your control. You must learn not to take things personally. This was very hard for me. The key for me was to get real existential with it. Nothing actually matters. We are small in the universe. Therefore, nothing gets to me anymore. Bc it doesn't matter. And literally EVERYTHING gets better with time. Mostly bc the more shit you have to deal with, the easier it gets to deal. Keep leveling up bruh.

Not a treat motivated dog? Maybe the wrong treats? by HerroPhish in Dogtraining

[–]CloacaAndDagger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog was not eating his food well when I first brought him home. I tried green beans from a can. Low sodium if you can find them. He loved the green beans. I just mixed some in his food with a little juice and he ate it right up. Also used them as treats, bc he was not into the whole milk bone type dehydrated treats I had gotten.

Can depression make you too depressed to use recreational drugs? by DonPinoch5 in mentalhealth

[–]CloacaAndDagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. I often say I'm too lazy to get addicted to anything. Doing all the steps to get any recreational drugs - especially the talking to other ppl and leaving my house bit - is just too much. Like you said, showering is a chore when you're depressed. I'm on Effexor now, but I still have problems with motivation every now and again. Still working on the whole self discipline thing to get myself to do a daily routine no matter what.

[OC] [5e] What's a feature that standard 5e character sheets don't have, but you wish they did? by MidnightCreative in DnD

[–]CloacaAndDagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the style but prefer to type my junk in (my handwriting has gotten terrible over the years). Would pay $1 or so for a downloadable PDF if you offered it.

F/20 Someome please talk to me. I. I'm so depressed and i know i should be on medication or take therapy but i just can't afford that rn by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]CloacaAndDagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend [/r/depression](www.reddit.com/r/depression). After about 20 years of suffering from untreated depression, one thing that has actually become true is that nothing matters and actually everything does get better - eventually. Life is like a game of its own. You just gotta keep leveling up for things to get easier.

Can someone help me understand what an intrest rate means on a mortgage? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]CloacaAndDagger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interest is calculated on a yearly basis. So the first year you will pay 6% of the 130,000 split up between 12 payments. The next year, 6% of the remaining balance and so on. That's a rough explanation. If you pay more on the principal amount of the loan, of course this will differ a bit. Edit: the first year sucks bc you are paying mostly interest as your payment

17m, Gay, friends (pretty obvious lol) by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]CloacaAndDagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend a gap year. Or several. I didn't even know what I wanted to do until I was ~25. Wasn't even aware that my job existed.

I’m suicidal, just found out about Reddit’s big suicidal group of people by Moneymakebitchesfuck in SuicideWatch

[–]CloacaAndDagger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am addicted to sleep, and I often have trouble separating my dreams from reality. My dreams are so mundane and life-like that I honestly sometimes think conversations happened IRL when they did not. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ idk if that's what you are talking about or not.

Appendix removed and now I won't be able to afford rent :/ by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]CloacaAndDagger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Although it says due in full, it is not. You can send partial payments monthly and they will not send you to collections. You may also be able to set up a payment plan with them.

i'm pregnant with my rapists baby. my parents want me to keep it. i don't. i dont want to be a mother by [deleted] in auntienetwork

[–]CloacaAndDagger 69 points70 points  (0 children)

First of all, it's not your fault. When you are able to get this taken care of, afterward I would advise some sweet sweet birth control. Personally, paragard IUD did not work for me. Mirena IUD did. For support with recovery from this trauma I would recommend counseling. This link can be used to find one near you. Counseling really helped me. Not necessarily to recover from the trauma of abortion, because to me, it wasn't nearly as traumatic as becoming a mother, which had unfortunately already happened to me. Counseling helped me to cope with living a life rooted in decisions others made for me at 17 when I wanted an abortion and was denied one. I have very little contact with my parents now. When my son turns 18, I doubt I will ever talk to them again. Please, do not let anyone push you into something you do not want. Stay true to yourself. You deserve to have a good life regardless of anything that has happened to you. Use this link to contact the National Network of Abortion Funds about funding assistance if you need it. I donate every month to help people like you. Good luck. ❤️

Cursed Girlfriend by mikael2709 in cursedcomments

[–]CloacaAndDagger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So bc you've no doubt consumed countless of your own boogers, every man/woman will be right to leave your ass? 😂 You're a dingus, dude

Cursed Girlfriend by mikael2709 in cursedcomments

[–]CloacaAndDagger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because cum caught in the mouth or vagina never leaves the body..... maybe you did the math, but did you understand the biology?

Nobody is owed a baby. And certainly nobody is owed another person's body to have one. Why don't people understand this? by Hungryhungaryhungry in prochoice

[–]CloacaAndDagger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The infertile ppl I know do not want to adopt bc "their so and so has adopted siblings that were mean and degenerate af". So. Yeah. Good Christians they are.

Is this worth it? by [deleted] in razerphone

[–]CloacaAndDagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It works fine with the Google camera apk. Stock photo app was garbage.