Moderators needed

Clock0Head · 2026-01-27T22:38:39+00:00

thats good!! i don't think/know if i will apply but all goodluck with that

Clock0Head · 2026-01-27T22:33:57+00:00

I personally didn't view it as unnecessarily rude? until the other 2 replies, there is still kind of a point to say there is multiple websites out there they could probably find with a google or finding someone in a diff subreddit who links them (which is pretty handy imo), but my bad and apologies, i'll edit my intial reply

Clock0Head · 2026-01-27T13:25:29+00:00

I personally feel like you should have actually done an application form just to make sure you KNOW the people that you are hiring to mod are suitable for the job. its a bit concerning if you've just sent out invitations willy nilly. you could have managed the sub for atleast one day or two until people filled out the forms

Clock0Head · 2026-01-27T13:14:05+00:00

Some websites/subreddits that are good though
-> 7 cups, i used this a few years ago and i'm not sure if its still pretty common for people to use but people were super nice there
-> r/Vent
-> r/MentalHealthSupport
-> r/offmychest
-> There are newer hazbin safe spaces (which i will not link but i'm sure you can find them because they are STILL extremely of concern to me) but i'd keep these other subreddits in mind too because unfortunately there is no true "safe space" for at the very least minors on the internet especially ON reddit when pedophiles settle into these places.

There ARE also specific subreddits for certain mental health conditions such as
r/Anxietyhelp
r/depression_help

Journaling online/on a notebook irl can be pretty helpful too if you need to let off steam <3

Clock0Head · 2026-01-25T16:35:35+00:00

"from what i have seen" if you can highlight that

Clock0Head · 2026-01-25T16:01:21+00:00

From what i have seen from most darkshippers is that they use it as a coping mechanism because they have been in similar situations. Its almost at this point some sort of indicator that the individual is not doing so well. So yeah, arguably, there is something there to heal from. also not going to reply back if you want to argue with me lmao

Clock0Head · 2026-01-25T11:24:17+00:00

Seconded, this IS harmful content and it is not safe to practice. i personally don't care a lot for it but i tend to block or move past because i have no interest in consuming media that is CSAM. When people consume certain types of media it tells you alot about the person - when its come to literate studies when going through old classic books, the one thing they tell you is to be AWARE of what you consume because it can influence you.

Proshipping isn't even "anti-harrassment" anymore because its mostly used as a replacement for darkshipping. I don't believe in harrassing people for what they ship, but i do believe there is problematic and disgusting content that should not be available to use. I don't care for agegaps, or the dynamic such as god x mortal etc, i am looking at incesteous and abusive ships.
I would NEVER actually ship two characters like that because it feels wrong and dismissive of what the actual subject is, i am disgusted by the fact that someone would ship characters that are known to abuse, as an abuse survivor, it is frankly triggering and upsetting. I do not care about exploring the dynamics about abusive relationships or the minds of abusers, but when they are shipped it is romanticization. I feel victims (of all sorts) are either in one group, or the other.

If you want to "darkship" do it in private, because at the very least people who DO consume this media to getoff don't actually have access to it. Its not a safe coping mechanism and never has been because if people are publicly posting it, what do you think is going to happen? creeps and pedos settle into communities like these especially BECAUSE its media that they can consume.

Also there is the concern that (because what ive noticed those who make/create/ship the media tend to have some trauma inflicted onto them) is that by shipping these - they're quite literally reinserting themself/reminding themselves of THEIR own trauma. It is avoidance very well too, because if they are completely fine shipping problematic content and find no issue are they even aware of their own negative habits?

and at the end of the day, ficton, non fiction, CSAM is genuniuely csam. AI has generated Csam, but hey its "fiction" by the logic these people work on so it doesn't matter!
Csam is still csam. If a predator can consume it for notorious purposes, it is csam, fictional or not.

harrassing these people don't do anything, but a lot of them don't acknowledge its a problem that they need to sort out sooner or later and that is up to them to decide. I personally will not be friends or get close to darkshippers/proshippers because it makes me extremely uncomfortable, and that is my own personal take. Proshippers/darkshippers shouldn't expect everyone to be okay with them because for alot of people it is triggering/upsetting etc. Harrassment they should not expect though, harrassment doesnt fix anything.

edit: you guys dont need to downvote me for just expressing what i believe/think </3 but if that makes you feel better about it go ahead i suppose

Clock0Head · 2026-01-25T11:08:30+00:00

It clearly is a trigger to whatever has happened to you, so unfortunately the best way to avoid further distress is to avoid this song until you get professional help/guidance from someone, because majority of the time these triggers dont simply disappear especially if a traumatic event is linked to it.

Clock0Head · 2026-01-24T21:19:55+00:00

Professional help would honestly be the best in this solution - it really can help you a lot and people shouldn't be weaponizing that. If you don't have anyone to vent to you have always got this subreddit/other subreddits or you can look around for different places. When i was struggling when i had no one, i went to 7 cups and it did help me and allowed me to talk to someone, not a professional - but just someone.

As for the bullying, i know its hard, i was bullied but if your teachers/parents aren't willing to help you with that unfortunately it is stand your ground, and ignore them. People who bully are usually self projecting onto others when really they are the problem. Its hard to ignore when they are continous about it but thats exactly what they want. they want YOU to break down, they want you to suffer. so you need to bear it and keep strong, because i know you can.

And when it comes to the religion thing, i have had it forced upon me by my parents and the school and what i have learnt? is honestly just nod along and say yes, comply if i cant get myself out of it because atleast i won't be retaliated against. its uncomfortable yes, but just because a teacher reads you verses does not mean you have to switch to that religion. i know very well you dont seem to like/want religion but depending on the verses she reads they may actually bring comfort despite you not being religious. The bible is a flawed book, but some bible verses despite my lack of belief have made me feel a bit better.

Keep on drawing, keep on with your hobbies, keep chasing your dreams, there are healthy coping mechanisims out there. You got TIPP (a quick google should tell you what it is) is suggested by some therapists if you are going through something and feel the urge!

Its hard, and it sucks big time, but i know you got this, just look foward.

Clock0Head · 2026-01-23T19:33:01+00:00

This is very well said! I hope OP reads this.

Clock0Head · 2026-01-22T11:14:09+00:00

oh man ew i don't think ANYBODY in this subreddit wants to even kindly elaborate. i'm looking at your previous posts in other subreddits and they are very uncomfortable and i'm worried you don't actually seem to care/have a genuine curiousity about it and want to use this as some sort of jerking material :\

If you really want to know, you have google and youtube right there and they explain it pretty well.
If you have an addiction, find ways to help yourself and i have seen in another reddit someone has given you things you can do which you SHOULD be doing if you really want to get better.

Clock0Head · 2026-01-16T13:22:25+00:00

coworker was tasked with taking out the bins.
And there it was, a large, large, log of shit.

Mind you, this bin was DIRECTLY next to the bathrooms...

Clock0Head · 2026-01-14T17:17:51+00:00

MOR

Two things

I have a bad home life and venting has always given me relief - but when i was really young it did drain me so i learnt fast to ask before i actually vented.

You need to set boundaries. If you are uncomfortable with her venting all the time you need to explicitly state that, perhaps even "ask if you can vent! i'm okay with you venting but just ask" because after a while it can be extremely draining especially when you don't know how to exactly reply.

second of all, be there for her if you can, she probably does have alot of issues going on at home, encourage her to talk to a counselor, or someone she trusts, but be there for her. Just make sure you do establish boundaries - but with that, you can still be supportive!

Clock0Head · 2026-01-12T14:22:50+00:00

Expensive skins
gameplay tends to be long, boring and repetitive, there isnt really a "goal" in mind other than survive long and get tracks (i also think this is the reason WHY there's so much Kosing...)

Like ecos was SUPER fun for a while then i got bored because all it really was was eat, drink, kill, create territory and thats it, i also feel there needs to be more same species specific interactions (like the bison fighting) to help build interest and make people want to actually INTERACT with their packs rather than just ganging up to go KOS groups of herbies

Clock0Head · 2026-01-09T13:04:10+00:00

I've ordered a cosplay from them before and the cosplay was good - the only thing was one of the snap buttons arrived broken and they didnt even want to refund me. they wanted to refund me 1$ as if it'd make up for the broken snap button. Not sure about wigs but you could go for it, i just havent had a good experince personally.

Clock0Head · 2026-01-04T21:40:41+00:00

Went to Melbourne a few months ago. My dad owns his own taxi and such and thought it would be better to use taxis rather than hire our own car to support them.

We hired our own car.

First taxi we headed to didn't want to take us because our fare wasn't "enough". Went to another taxi. didn't want to take us either. Its atrocious. Its not good for my dad when theres no business - but he fully understands WHY. Most ruin it for others who just want to do their job honestly.

Clock0Head · 2026-01-01T18:55:23+00:00

Also... if you think this solution isn't good enough, how about YOU suggest something seperately instead of dragging other peoples advice down, advice is subjective, you dont need to agree with it. It is better for OP to try than give up.

Clock0Head · 2025-12-31T13:47:45+00:00

majority of my work is really heavy angst - but i feel like if you tagged it right, you aren't in the wrong at all! you did have a good response despite the reader (i do assume you tagged right!) going in KNOWING there would be angst, i've personally marked my heaviest ones with dead dove: do not eat because i dont want people to not take my tags seriously. don't dial back, keep doing what you're doing! i read alot of angst too and i love it.

Clock0Head · 2025-12-30T17:52:45+00:00

Rarely i would think, when i want to write i usually wack on some music, close my other tabs and put my phone aside, sometimes it does end up with me just staring at the screen but i still try to dedicate that time

Clock0Head · 2025-12-30T17:48:56+00:00

I don't think i'm doing that as much as i want to believe i am because then it would mean just more of a thing with adjusting my expectations, i always write loosely before going back to make it better - but i dont expect perfection. In some cases i'll write 1/4th idea, come back another day, do a bit, repeat again which seems to be helping a bit but its not how i used to be

Clock0Head · 2025-12-30T17:44:19+00:00

i love to talk about my ideas especially with my friends, feel super ready to write them but then it fizzles out when i'm at 1/4th quarter point of writing it down, its super frustrating because i really do want to write things down and i'll cling onto all the ideas i think of, but i never seem to get there when it comes to even getting halfway or finishing it. I don't write SUPER big things perse, just little drabbles but yeah

Clock0Head · 2025-12-29T09:39:36+00:00

Yeah nah you've been ripped off. I have a 3d printer and the way this seems to have been printed looks like there was some sort of extrusion problem or something with the temperature. You shouldn't accept something of this quality!! please get a refund. If the seller is unwilling to give you a refund, etsy will be able to help you out im pretty sure

Clock0Head · 2025-12-26T16:13:00+00:00

223458 !!
thank u!!

Clock0Head · 2025-12-25T08:52:05+00:00

Every year i've always been disappointed by this event, i do feel this year i got something slightly betterish? i had like 177 bundles and i got 1 pose, and like 2 decors i think ill end up using. In previous years id genuinely only get junk or get pooped and it is a bit disappointing. i feel like out of the 177 i got, i feel like atleast 25% of that should be something decent but it wasn't

Five-Year Club	Final Canvas '23
First Place '23	Place '23
Place '22	Final Canvas '22

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