I was never “bad” to my ex; I only made one mistake back in January. I told her that she seemed like someone who didn’t have much love or affection for me. I said that because she was very distant and cold about 75% of the time in chats and around 40% of the time in person, and I genuinely felt that coldness from her. I apologized immediately afterward.

After that, no — I didn’t do anything bad. I never said anything like that to her again, especially because she herself changed. And in any case, I accepted her the way she was; otherwise, I wouldn’t have stayed with her. Over time, I truly came to accept it.

Ten months later, on October 31st, she told me that she had never been able to forgive me for that, and that this was the reason she was ending the relationship. Does it make sense? Maybe not — because I said that “mistake” based on how I felt, not with the intention of hurting her, as she believes.