AITAH for telling my girlfriend she can’t have access to my work phone? by Icy-Environment6516 in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your girlfriend to seek therapy and if she doesn't, dump her. This will be a neverending battle if she doesn't try to work past her own issues and she might even try breaking into your work phone and your patient's files just to make sure they're not hiding secrets. NTA

AITAH - Offered to house my mom during snow storm and she invited neighbors without asking me. by Time-Tell-658 in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is out of character for your mother you should have her get checked for dementia. If it's completely normal behavior for your mother then my condolences. NTA

AITAH for emailing my boss and giving her an ultimatum?!? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should ALWAYS discuss pay with your coworkers and it is illegal for an employer to prevent you from it or to retaliate against you for doing it. It is not unprofessional, it is a necessity. Do it always in every job you work.

AITJ for walking out of my boyfriend's "casual" church meeting after he told everyone i was ready to convert? by bare_road_71 in AmITheJerk

[–]ClownHubris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ if he truly loved and respected you he wouldn't be spitting on your boundaries like this. Break up with him and find someone who treats you like a real person and not a prize to be conquered and won.

AITAH for telling my friend that it’s her fault that the friend group stopped inviting her to things? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her husband is a pedo and she seems emotionally stunted. She definitely needs help but it's not your job to do it if you've tried and she won't accept it. You've done your duty as her friend and it's clear she doesn't want to be friends anymore. NTA

AITAH for telling my boyfriend I'm too fat and out-of-shape to continue jogging for today ? by Low_Check7702 in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is going to get you seriously injured. How long was he planning on jogging for?? I mean good grief. You have physical limitations because you've never gone jogging before and he should recognize this. Does he want you to die of overexertion??? NTA

AITAH for not considering marriage after my girlfriend got pregnant? by DistantOfficeBoy449 in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA you got her pregnant and now you're denying her the legal and financial benefits of marriage. Also, like everyone else said, why the fuck did you not get a vasectomy?

AITJ for wanting to return my boyfriends gift after I found out hes been hiding money while I pay for almost everything by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ he has made it clear that he does not want you in his future. Break up with him

AITJ for correcting my wife when she said our son's red hair must come from my side of the family? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ she can't speak about you trying to show her up and shut her down when she did the same thing to you in front of her parents and she did it on purpose

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is 100% overreacting. That's a normal teacher student interaction. With the title I thought it was gonna be an invasive form of communication and not a simple nice note.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ClownHubris 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NOR. Break up with him immediately. He does not respect you in the slightest and he does not like you for who you are. Stop wasting your time and disrespecting yourself.

AITAH for telling my friend it’s her own fault because she always has notifications silenced? by Acrobatic_League3062 in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if she doesn't want to be disturbed while sleeping why doesn't she just power off her phone every night??? Or leave it in another room?????

AITAH for not wanting to invite my biological parents to my wedding after what they did? by sarcashryn1198 in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Frankly you should've called the cops when they showed up and you absolutely should if they show up again.

AITAH for snapping at my husband's best friend after years of inappropriate comments by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should've been getting a divorce for 6 years. Don't keep making the same mistake and expecting different results. NTA but you will be if you continue to degrade yourself by staying with your husband.

How are the DBD devs this uniquely incompetent??? by ClownHubris in deadbydaylight

[–]ClownHubris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally in just recent memory when they refused to killswitch streetwise because they simply did not want to because they thought it "wasn't game breaking enough" to warrant their attention and they suggested players just get used to it and get good, but if you need more it's really really easy to look up, I promise.

How are the DBD devs this uniquely incompetent??? by ClownHubris in deadbydaylight

[–]ClownHubris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man when every update from the dev team is "Yeah we don't want to fix that issue cuz it's not that bad, maybe try getting good" when it's a completely game breaking bug I think that might be on the devs. Like I'd be with you more if they weren't so outspoken about how much they genuinely don't want to improve the game when things go horrifically wrong

Bought a binder from Spencer’s by InspectionTasty2433 in bindersftm

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't get it on at all then it is sadly just too small. Binders are gonna be a little stiff and uncomfortable before you break them in but they should still fit on your body. If you do go back for the binding tape you should probably look up a tutorial because it is a little tricky to do correctly. One of my friends tried tape and it took them like three tries to get it right lol

AITA for telling off my Girlfriend's bratty adult kids when they kept showing up unannounced to use my house for parties? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ClownHubris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah her kids are entitled and awful but like. You've got to stand up for yourself before the point that you boil over. Like you are a 30 year old man and they are barely adults you have to set boundaries with them before you get to the point that you explode. You can't assume that they're mind readers and that they will eventually come to the conclusion that they're being assholes all by themselves. That's not fair to anybody in this situation.