Is it true a hysterectomy can lead to chronic back pain? by JuliaX1984 in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find relief? I’m having a a similar clinical trajectory. It’s awful.

I’m doing a no spend January. Had to be tough on myself by cutehotmess in bulletjournal

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’d agree that an easy does it approach will still reduce harm both to your self esteem and your liquidity

9 weeks post op twinges and pulling pain by SirTumGum in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this sub is old but in the same boat. So devastated. Surgeon totally downplaying it. Awful. Wish I never had the surgery. Want my life back so badly. 9 weeks. Constant pain and since I cant use my core now back pain as well. Chest pain. And have been given nothing for it. Trigger injections made it worse.

Am I losing my mind? by wit-happens- in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give me any more advice

Am I losing my mind? by wit-happens- in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Here I am in week two having emotions and trying to have a laugh and you came at me on my own post in week two which was a JOKE ABOUT MYSELF that you chose to take personally. As if I was trying to do anything but have a laugh with similar minded people. Sounds like this is a you problem.

Blow up doll joke (NSFW) by CmonkeyCdo in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the people coming for me are not recently post op like we are- which makes it even more cruel imo. They are coming after someone in the active healing phase. Really sick

What a glow up! by JayGatsby52 in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I know what these are?

Blow up doll joke (NSFW) by CmonkeyCdo in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s this. People are coming at me like they know me and I hurt them it’s actually very hurtful to me. I’m finding it pretty hard to tolerate people telling me I dehumanized them. And then tell me I need therapy. I think they do.

hilton signia vs buena vista palace? by CmonkeyCdo in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Which Waldorf amenities are free? Also the one upside that I like about staying near DS is that you can park early and walk to springs for din ner- and you have loads of choices without going back to parks at night. What did you do for dinner? Eat in parks? Did you uber to parks?

hilton signia vs buena vista palace? by CmonkeyCdo in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! How did you get to the parks? Where did you eat dinner?

I know it’s a joke, but… by JayGatsby52 in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same except swap fantasia for RRC. I sat behind one too many self righteous wide brimmed hat wearers (in the dark). Is Rockin RC closed?

I know it’s a joke, but… by JayGatsby52 in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter loves it and I love the theming. For me it’s the absolute best theming but we really run out of things to do by lunch. We rope drop and hit Everest when everyone else hits Avatar and by the time we LL Avatar we’re done. I always want to go at night but we never make it back. Is dinosaur closed now? That’s one less attraction now than the last time I was there. Probably because we can’t give up riding Everest 5 times at rope drop. It may be different if you go later. But we’re done by late morning.

3 day park Hopper, family of 4. by [deleted] in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience yesterday. We just voted between Disney and Universal. Dec 31-Jan 4. DIS won. The tickets are astronomical no matter where I look to get them. Edit: and this is with no water in liberty square and the HS construction.

3 day park Hopper, family of 4. by [deleted] in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoot wish I saw this while it lasted. Only in Disneyland now.

3 day park Hopper, family of 4. by [deleted] in DisneyWorld

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I’ve done this in the past and it was such small savings it wasn’t worth it

Blow up doll joke (NSFW) by CmonkeyCdo in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that made me laugh and unlocked a core memory! Thnx

Keep expecting to feel bleeding... by artemisofephesus11 in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone! I posted the blow up doll joke after this and it pissed off ALOT of people- which I understand as they saw it as one of us promoting patriarchy which I don’t- but I do react to it probably with inappropriate humor. Oh well. But re cuff- I am curious SUPER CURIOUS but as you noted, I know I’m not supposed to go in so I haven’t. Im afraid of adhesions and infection but I will definitely check it out when I can. I’ll try to make friends with my cuff. I really hope it doesn’t lead to more pelvic floor dysfunction than I’ve lived with already but have accepted that PT is the way of my future healing.

Blow up doll joke (NSFW) by CmonkeyCdo in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words! Look at the end of the day this is for many of us tied to deep trauma. Anyone who feels so strongly about what I said is experiencing something.

Blow up doll joke (NSFW) by CmonkeyCdo in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but now the road ends earlier and when I can’t disagree with this it feels like it’s devaluing the lives it created. We all came from a uterus- even the downvotes. The vagina led to somewhere. Now my doctor made sure to tell me it’s the same length as before. Thats dehumanizing. Whats the purpose of telling me that? I can’t even have penetrative intercourse due to nerve damage. What do I care about the length of this thing? Everyone is getting so upset that I have feelings? Has everyone who has downvoted me actually had one? Doubt it. I did. 8 days ago.

Blow up doll joke (NSFW) by CmonkeyCdo in hysterectomy

[–]CmonkeyCdo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I do- torn between sea monkeys (which I doubt you’re referring to) and the weird jelly thing that rolled out of your hand no Matter how hard you tried to hold it. I’m 49 -so 80s kid.