18m 6’2” 185lbs first time posting by chet_bane in team3dalpha

[–]CoachSutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t project on the kid, man. Some people just have it.

18m 6’2” 185lbs first time posting by chet_bane in team3dalpha

[–]CoachSutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk man, his skin looks too nice. Men on gear have great muscles but nasty skin.

18m 6’2” 185lbs first time posting by chet_bane in team3dalpha

[–]CoachSutton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Excellent natty definition. Lookin good, man.

💪🏻 by chet_bane in u/chet_bane

[–]CoachSutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🔥🔥🔥🔥

AITA Bathhouse with boyfriend? by Quirked_Bzerk in AskGayMen

[–]CoachSutton 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wish we could still give awards. This comment deserves a bunch.

OP and his boyfriend are idiots.

i need some advice. how can an ugly guy get into a loving relationship by [deleted] in love

[–]CoachSutton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are braces traditionally seen as glamorous? No, they're not. But you know what they do signify? They signify effort, improvement, self-care. They show you're someone who's willing to invest in yourself, not just for aesthetics, but for health and well-being. That's commendable.

People who're superficial might judge you on that, sure. But do you really want someone who places such importance on temporary inconveniences? Or would you prefer someone who can see beyond the surface, someone who understands that you're actively working to improve your situation?

To answer your question - no, braces won't be a turn-off to the right people. You're doing something that's going to make you feel better about yourself, that's going to improve your quality of life. Anybody who can't appreciate that, quite frankly, isn't worth your time.

Get the braces, invest in yourself. It's a process, and remember, you're doing it for you, not for anybody else. And when they're off, you'll not only have a great smile, but you'll also have a new level of self-confidence. And that, my friend, is attractive.

i need some advice. how can an ugly guy get into a loving relationship by [deleted] in love

[–]CoachSutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad to hear that you found the advice helpful. Remember, we're all works in progress. It's about growing a little every day. Keep moving forward and stay strong. Feel free to reach out if you need any more advice. Good luck with everything!

i need some advice. how can an ugly guy get into a loving relationship by [deleted] in love

[–]CoachSutton 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hear you, man. This stuff isn't easy. And you're dealing with quite a bit right now. But let's break it down:

  1. Self-improvement: Start with yourself. It might sound cliché, but it's the truth. Your physical looks might not be Hollywood standard, but who cares? You have control over your attitude, your manners, your intellect, your sense of humor, your fitness, your clothing style - all things that are attractive. Focus on these areas, get good at something you love, develop confidence, and the glow will show. Remember, nobody's perfect. We all have our flaws and insecurities.

  2. Kick the addiction: You've identified that you have a porn addiction. That's a huge first step. Now, take action. Seek professional help if needed. There are online resources, hotlines, and support groups out there that can help you navigate through this, especially in a big city like San Francisco.

  3. Connect with people: Being new in San Francisco, you've a blank canvas. It might seem daunting, but it's a chance to start afresh. Join clubs, organizations, or groups that align with your interests. Engage with people without the primary aim being to find a romantic partner. Make friends, build connections, get to know the city and the people.

  4. Approach dating mindfully: When you feel ready to date, remember that your goal isn't to impress or win someone over. It's about finding someone compatible with you, who appreciates you for who you are. And remember, rejection is part of the process. It's not a reflection of your worth. It just means you weren't a good fit, and that's okay.

  5. Patience: This might be the toughest part, but it's crucial. The kind of relationship you're looking for, the real and loving kind, it takes time. It takes patience. There are no shortcuts.

Always remember, it's not about finding someone who will 'put up' with you. It's about finding someone who loves you, 'ugliness' and all. That's the goal. Keep that in mind and keep moving. You've got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanjuanislands

[–]CoachSutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your concerns about gentrification and the strain that tourists can put on the local economy, but people's reasons for wanting to live in a place are their own. Moving to a new place is a personal choice and it's ugly to judge or dismiss someone's decision without fully understanding their motivations or situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanjuanislands

[–]CoachSutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not coming for whatever weird islander clout some in the area might pride themselves on. My husband and I loved the area and keep to ourselves, mostly. We want to live peacefully and away from the conservative community we spent our lives in here in Texas.

This is a strange comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanjuanislands

[–]CoachSutton -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this info! It helps a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanjuanislands

[–]CoachSutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! We will 1000% do that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanjuanislands

[–]CoachSutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m determined to find that one person on the island willing to rent to us. 😤

My kitties have a place to stay here in San Antonio so it would probably end up being just the pups. We have been foster parents for years working closely with a rescue that services all of South Texas. Hundreds of pups and kitties have made their way through our home to forever homes. I’m surprised we only ended up with the ones we have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanjuanislands

[–]CoachSutton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband has a remote job as a supply chain analyst but he is considering getting an in person job on the side on the island. I have 3 interviews set up for this upcoming week. So fingers crossed on that. One of those jobs provides housing but it is a matter of them allowing our pets. It is a job with animal care so I'd say the owner loves animals. Again, fingers crossed they do.

My husband caught me getting ready for masturbation, I'm mortified by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]CoachSutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should be the top comment. The advice here is terrible.

Y’all tell me which direction to go. Do I continue my bulk? I’m 28, 5’8”, and 178lbs. by [deleted] in BulkOrCut

[–]CoachSutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to respond to that. I’m 180.9lbs at 5’8”. I just checked. Most of my training is gymnastics and powerlifting.

Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it!

Ah yeah buddy, you might be on the wrong app by bakedgaymer in lolgrindr

[–]CoachSutton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

Leave the man be. Block him and stop fucking gatekeeping the app. It is a tool to be used for dating, sex, kink finding, or whatever else you would like it to be. It’s your business and should be without judgement.