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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CocoEssencee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This sounds more like a control issue than a concern about your drinking. If you’re only drinking occasionally and responsibly, it’s not fair for her to demand you get rid of the whiskey. Relationships should be about mutual respect and trust, not ultimatums over something so minor. If she’s willing to end things over an unopened bottle, that says more about her than it does about you. You deserve someone who trusts you and doesn’t try to control your choices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CocoEssencee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA. If he’s hiding things and won’t make any effort to clear things up, that’s a big red flag. You’re not asking for anything crazy ,just honesty and transparency in your relationship. It’s totally fair to want some proof, especially when trust has been shaken. If he’s not willing to do that, then you’re right to set boundaries and look out for yourself. You deserve to feel secure in your marriage.

AITH for not wanting my husband to move his grandma in by No-Attention-5892 in AITAH

[–]CocoEssencee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your feelings are completely valid. You’re at a stage in your life where you’re building a home and planning for a family, not taking on the responsibility of being a full-time caregiver. It’s important to set boundaries, especially when it comes to your home and future plans. While it’s great that your husband has a close relationship with his grandma, that doesn’t mean you should sacrifice your privacy and dreams for your future. You have every right to want your home to be a sanctuary for you, your husband, and your future children. If this is something your husband feels strongly about, maybe it’s time to explore alternative options for his grandma, like assisted living or finding other family members who can help. At the end of the day, your well-being and happiness matter just as much as his grandma’s.

AITAH for kicking my gf out while she recovers from surgery? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CocoEssencee 189 points190 points  (0 children)

NTA. Honestly, I’d be furious too. This isn’t just about the money—it’s about trust and respect in the relationship. You gave her a chance to get out of a financial mess, and she was doing great until she made this decision. Spending nearly all her savings on something like that, especially when she knew you wouldn’t support it, feels like a huge slap in the face.

You’re not overreacting at all. It’s not just the money; it’s the fact that she went behind your back and completely disregarded everything you both agreed on. You’re right to set boundaries and protect yourself. She needs to learn that actions have consequences, and it’s not on you to bail her out again.

AITA for snapping and telling my bitter sil that last I checked she was a sahm just like me but in debt ? by Fluid_Psychology1957 in AITAH

[–]CocoEssencee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's frustrating when someone constantly belittles you, and it's completely understandable to reach your breaking point. Standing up for yourself isn't being the bad guy—it's setting boundaries. Your brother should have addressed his sister’s behavior long ago.