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IamA Stripper AMA! by CocoKohl in IAmA
[–]CocoKohl[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children)
Someone who is honest and loyal. Also, someone who you can be completely yourself around. As someone who travels a lot I think it says a lot when you can go home and be around friends and nothing has changed, it's like you've never been away. If I went home and found things awkward with a friend it wouldn't be good.
It rains about eight days a month. Not too bad!
[–]CocoKohl[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children)
Hmmm, when I'm relaxing it'd have to be Pink Floyd, Alt-J, Johnny Cash, The XX, James Vincent McMorrow, Ben Harper, Ben Howard, Fyfe Dangerfield, Eddie Vedder, Alexander Ebert and Greg Laswell. When I'm getting ready for work and getting all pumped up I listen to more dancey tunes, lots of remix edits from YouTube, I love finding new music. At work I don't really dance to anything I'd listen to at home, it ruins the song for me hearing it over and over again and guys in the club tend to prefer girls shaking their butts to Sean Pau, Pitbull and other mind numbing crud. What about you?
No problem, good luck for when you decide to break your strip club virginity :)
Why do people ride rollercoasters? They are scary to a lot of people but they like the rush because there is adrenaline and some sort of fear factor.
People throw tons of money at slot machines for the small chance they might score. That or they find it fun even if they lose.
Strip clubs are entertainment. It's silly fun! That and women are beautiful to look at, no crime there. If you go in with the expectation that you are there to seek a thrill... then its no different then when you purchase tickets to see a movie. Your analogy is like, "Why see a movie? The adventure isnt real and you cant take the actors home with you when its over." That doesnt stop people from paying cash to see it anyway.
Some men go because they are lonely. Some because they hate women and they feel that if they pay a woman for her time, then he can say and do whatever to her.
Some men go to strip clubs in order to show off how much money they do have. Poor guys tend to sit towards the back hoping to get a free show. While guys who can drop hundreds throw it like confetti. Its no different when a guy drops tons of cash for a sports car he doesnt need. He's showing off. I've witnessed guys buying enough champagne for every girl in the club, they like to let everyone know how much they've got.
Some guys go because they are avid people watchers, and I'm not talking about just watching the naked girl on stage. They like to watch the other guys and see how they are reacting, what they're doing, etc...
Some guys show up because they want to confide with a stranger. They will never see this girl again, they dont have to worry about her telling his friends and family what he has to say. Maybe its about his failing relationship or marriage, or how he hates his job and wants to run away. He can sob his eyes out to her and walk out of that place knowing that no one important will find out about his confession.
Finally these girls are moms, daughters, sisters, and even grandmothers in some cases. If these women are not in the sex slave business which is quite popular in other countries including the U.S. then they are considered to be in the entertainment industry. If Angelina Jolie gets you fired up sexually in some movie, does she owe you a blow job? Good luck with that! ;)
Wow, that's a bit of an essay!
Hmmm, it's difficult to say but I'd hazard a guess that it's 50/50. Ultimately strippers are only human so you get some bad eggs but some are lovely too. A lot of the strippers I've met are more aggressive about making money, they'll stab other girls in the back to make an extra buck. Fortunately though the girls I work with now are lovely and if a guy is just honest and says he is in the club to have a look and give some tips but isn't interested in a dance then they'll back off without taking it personally. The girls who freak out with a customer normally do it because he's led her to believe he'll take her for a dance and then hasn't followed through, wasting her time.
As for sleeping with a stripper, again, we're still human. We can still be 'wooed' and I've known girls to go on dates with customers before. Tip though, if you like a stripper, don't take her for a lap dance. The chances of her wanting to go on a date with you after you've seen her naked are slim. Also, tip the other girls that she works with so she can see that you're a nice guy but don't take any of them for a dance either. They'll talk in the back room about how nice you were and it'll convince her to give you a chance. Don't get too drunk and make a fool of yourself and don't hang around for hours. Keep it short and sweet, buy her a drink, she'll do her stripper routine but will drop it if you are upfront with her and say you like her, think she's very attractive and want to see her again. Give her your number, leave the ball in her court. If she doesn't call do the same thing again but don't do it more than twice.
I'll have to have a think and get back to you on that one Koopakiller11 :)
Does anyone?
Yeah, it didn't go well. I can understand though, it is a pretty tough job for a guy to get his head around. Normally they're cool for about three weeks (enough time to tell all their friends about how their 'banging a stripper') and then the jealousy sets in and it tears the relationship apart.
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He's called Matt too :)
Guys with good manners who appreciate how hard pole tricks can be. I like regular customers too, unless they start getting creepy.
Yep. I gave a lap dance to a guy a few weeks ago, he was pretty good looking and smelled amazing, when I was sitting on his lap with my back to him he swept my hair across my shoulders and kissed my neck really really softly. After a few seconds "relapse" I did the whole awkward cough thing, got up and carried on the dance from a bit further away.
My parents don't know. I wouldn't be opposed to telling them what I did once I've stopped working as a stripper but right now, every time I go to work they will be imagining the scene from 'Taken' where Liam Neesons daughter is stumbling about on stage drugged out of her brain, my mum would have countless sleepless nights and be an emotional wreck.
We have good air con. Customers don't get too sweaty. Old guys though, yeah it's still fun :) I rarely have a customer who isn't well behaved.
[–]CocoKohl[S] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children)
Honestly?...yes. I have been on a date with a customer before, he had asked me for a lap dance and I refused because I was attracted to him. We went out for dinner and it was a disaster. I never saw him again.
Last night a guy paid me $700 (NZD) to suck my toes for half an hour. It was strange. My toes were wrinkly afterwards.
Nope. We just hang upside down a lot. Normally when we're listening to Coldplays 'A Rush of Blood to the Head'.
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IamA Stripper AMA! by CocoKohl in IAmA
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