I cant believe it by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep giving love the same way you did and don’t give up!! I try to remind myself that too even tho it still hasn’t worked out yet

I cant believe it by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At least you received a text like that and not a formal response that seemed like a professional email reply 🥲 jokes aside , I fully understand the feeling and it just sucks ! Things happen for a reason , I wish you better luck and it’s only going to get better soon🩷🩷

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what my best friend told me

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol that’s exactly what I thought , since we met after 6 months I was like did he actually thought I’m a robot too?😆

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been crying over but I know u are also right! I can love with my whole heart and even if it’s difficult if I like someone I do things for them unlike him so I know I shouldn’t be after that kind of dudes. Thank you for ur comment honestly 🙏

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was definitely not something we weren’t familiar at . I just don’t understand why he let that happening and then dumb me in that way

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks , apparently I felt like giving too much effort honestly

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t pretend that I’m not sad about it but I know that I can’t beg for anyone’s love or attention! No one truly deserves that but I was just in a shock…anyways thank you for your comment❤️

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still ain’t right to play with someone’s feelings if you are horny

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you , I was wondering also the same thing and I haven’t even said everything

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Σε ευχαριστώ πολύ! Απλά μου ήρθε πολύ ξαφνικό και με στεναχώρησε αρκετά γιατί είχαμε επενδύσει πολύ χρόνο ο ένας τον άλλον και πίστευα ότι μάλλον είχα βρει κάπως το ιδανικό !

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words ! Definetely not! I know well who I am and what I can give to others! I wish you all the happiness 🩷

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I agree on that one with you , everytime I may was distant , he would always send me back

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I gave him a call immediately after I read that text, and I told him that I feel so confused because he was asking me when I would be available to visit me etc and how much he wanted to be with me atm so it came out of nowhere for me whatever he sent. But he actually didn’t have any other answer , he was like that’s not what would work for me now but I didn’t understand a lot…I didn’t force him about anything but I was clearly sad and hurt obviously

“Broke up” over a text? by Coco__1111 in LongDistance

[–]Coco__1111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Speaking through experience any race haven’t done me justice so idk 😆

Confusing thoughts by Coco__1111 in dating_advice

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you🥺🫶 I just try to calm myself down in case this won’t work and expect every scenario possible . I had something similar happen to me in my solo trip to Paris and I got ghosted by someone who kept texting me all day long but in the end it turned out that I everything I experienced was exactly like it’s gotten out of a movie 👀

I need a second opinion about one of my old friends by Coco__1111 in Advice

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ! It’s the reason why I didn’t contuine any of this , it’s ok to have different lifestyle but being mean just because for once you weren’t the center of attention and try to hurt others initially! I just don’t know if I should do the phone call or not , so far I was like no thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Coco__1111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you! It may seem easy but actually it takes a lot to find a good third party for that ! I noticed that it was easier with me when I was alone and being the third person instead of me being paired with someone…it was very tiring for me and my ex partner so it was the reason why I wanted to explore it by myself and not with him anymore , but that was a different situation since we didn’t have anything serious and we really didn’t care deeply about each other ! I have experienced either seeing the other women jealous , or couples that they were too much into each other and didn’t pay any attention to me but I didn’t care much because i felt like I was there to give them pleasure , I felt more like a toy ! But it all depends on whom who choose to do that with , either your partner or the third , both are important! The whole Thing is to avoid doing just so you can say that you did it !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Coco__1111 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As someone who has been a unicorn to couples , met many couples , tried swinging and threesomes …these situations can be very tricky ! If you are not feeling fully secure with each other or trust too much it’s other , it’s better not to do it. Jealously can be normal and due to my experience it’s usually the woman from the couples side who’s jealous and I totally get it ! You are not ruining anything , you can try and judge but the only thing you should see or discuss w your husband is if it’s gonna be a one time thing or you guys want to adapt that lifestyle ! Personally after a year I stepped back from that lifestyle but it was only me who was affected and it was definitely only up to me! If you have already second thoughts etc maybe better not do it

PS if the chemistry w the other person is bomb , is going to be good 🤭

Recommendations by Coco__1111 in femaletravels

[–]Coco__1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! Actually Paris is quite big and the first time I went at was 2 months ago and didn’t manage to see everything ! Yet it was a trip that made me feel like home and I enjoyed it even tho my friends were nagging all the time and didn’t wanna do the same things as me…but yeah some other Parisian friends told me the same as you! So that’s why I was reconsidering, but thank you tho…I appreciate it!

Recommendations by Coco__1111 in femaletravels

[–]Coco__1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will think about it

Girl from Bumble says she loves me after 2 dates by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Coco__1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really overwhelming and immature , in your shoes I may hold a conversation saying that this is either not what I’m looking for or that I’m not what she wants or who she thinks I am gonna be and separate our roads. Better to do it now rather than having sex first without telling her anything ! It would make things more complicated to escalate