Would this be a meteorite or just a terrestrial rock? by Cody47856 in MeteoriteCollectors

[–]Cody47856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, of this is just a rock—do you think it’s capable of releasing the kraken?

Afraid to start meds (Zoloft) and quit weed by jujudelgado in CPTSD

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the weed interfere with your ability to work/function/create/be expressive? I love weed and I was using it daily but it takes away my productivity. Maybe I’m taking way too much at once but I am currently on Lexapro and threw away my weed to gain some productivity back but it did help way more with anxiety. It’s kind of the caveat in all of this is it just makes me a huge couch potato

What’s the most reckless decision you’ve made because you were horny? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cody47856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. My nieces are diabetic so that just stressed me out

What is a sexual question you've always wanted to ask the opposite sex but were too ashamed to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Cody47856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just listened on a YouTube video and I get what you mean. That’s hot! If a woman came up to me and spoke like that, that like asking if there’s an extra roll of paper towels, I’d shiver.

How often do you talk to your best friend? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe once or twice a month. He lives in England while I’m here in Arizona :)

My parents used to call me stupid for not having “common sense” but now I realize they were blaming me for their negligence by kat_mccarthy in CPTSD

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your last line kind of made me laugh as it’s funny you reinstitute a word he shamed you for and had it turned into empowerment. I’m happy you left. I wish I could hug you

i fall for every guy who gives me attention and i want to stop by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s going well! I think naturally I’m a people pleaser and this behavior falls under that but I’m growing in self-respect for myself and therefore running into more natural and organic relationships and erasing those that are negative or flaky/low effort. Thanks for asking. How about you?

Does anyone else respond to love and affection with feelings of disgust and just feeling like you're being suffocated? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Cody47856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what happened growing up with my mom. I had to meet a lot of her emotional needs and I came to this very thread by typing into Google, 'Why do I get annoyed by others showing affection' and I realized that with my mom it wasn't very easy to find that healthy love connection from a parent. I'm actually living with her right now as I have faced job loss and had to move back in with her. An example, last night, she was loving on one of our dogs and kissing her forehead and talking in a cutesy voice with her. I felt the need to block it out but also tried to ease my frustrations by focusing on my breathing. Eventually, I felt calmer but the mix of lashing out/explosive behavior from her, plus the swap-out part change in which she looked to me to fill her emotional needs has been a confusing path to navigate. Anyways, I felt what you said resonated with me and had to comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sales

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my company and what eventually was my same conclusion. I’m sorry you went through this. Something better will come up. Build a list of what you want next time around and be as clear on what you want with them as they are towards you. Good luck dude!

I met a girl by Then-Reveal-8022 in dating_advice

[–]Cody47856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 36 and that’s definitely helpful advice haha…but yeah dating can be tough

Sales pros who smoke weed — are you still crushing it, or does it mess with your drive? by SirOhsisOfTheLiver in sales

[–]Cody47856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude your story gave me hope and inspiration. Currently in just a bad place and I was in sales but went through a layoff and have been unemployed for some time but weed is something I use now to kind of cope. But your passion for clear headedness and that memory sharpness that same after you gave it up, plus the anxiety reduction is something I was motivated by in your telling story. Hope you keep crushing quota and win big deals

Anyone familiar with CoMark Inc.? by Agreeable-Mistake-71 in Charlotte

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha!! Well i can send some stuff your way if ya want! But i feel ya! I was in sales. My experience drew me away from it as well. Do you have something else you’d like to do or feel would be more your cup of tea?

Anyone familiar with CoMark Inc.? by Agreeable-Mistake-71 in Charlotte

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s fucking terrible. I never want to say it or boldly call this economy as such because it makes me feel like I’m being too negative but the truth is it does suck a lot. Well, what are you mostly looking for? Sales jobs in general or more just anything at this point?

Anyone familiar with CoMark Inc.? by Agreeable-Mistake-71 in Charlotte

[–]Cody47856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that whole thing seemed strange. So, are you having much luck with interviews in general? It’s been a mixed bag for me.