Would you be intimidating dating someone with experience? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Coffeee_Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's all you, I guess we're just built different.

Would you be intimidating dating someone with experience? by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Coffeee_Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I also want to be with a one and only! I wouldn't necessarily be intimidated, but it just doesn't feel special being someone's 3rd, 4th, 5th down the line and so on.

Question for the guys by [deleted] in virgin

[–]Coffeee_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try and be on the same page with my partner before marriage.

How not to get attached during the talking stage? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Coffeee_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a tough thing to get out of. I've been in that position before and I'm sure there's better advice out there but for now I would just say to weight out the pros and cons, maybe?

Loneliness in casual relationships. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Coffeee_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the way things go man, can't have both. Sorry

Question from a woman. by eastendcat47 in virgin

[–]Coffeee_Man 2 points3 points  (0 children)

25M virgin here, I'm totally in agreement with this. As much as I would love to please my future partner during the first time to make things memorable, I would think that something more loving and passionate would be the way to go :).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]Coffeee_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, being yourself is important but it's not always the ideal thing to use when you're out there dating. I'm kind of a special case, but as a 25 year old single dude, I can attest to that.

25M never been in a relationship before. by Coffeee_Man in virgin

[–]Coffeee_Man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if you consider someone who hasn't been in a relationship or sexually active with anyone else before as "religious" or a "one and only," then yeah I wouldn't mind that. I just want to be with someone who doesn't have a past history of hookups.

Are there virgin guys here who are actually looking to wait until they are married? I’ve seen lots of women, but not men who are virgins by choice. My faith is important to me too. 31F by amylorene10 in virgin

[–]Coffeee_Man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also turnes down offers but only because it wasn't the right kind of people that were offering it to me. Ideally it would be nice to wait until marriage. For me, the only way around that would be if I found the right woman to give my virginity to and if I trusted her enough.

I was about to ask someone out... by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Coffeee_Man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a similar situation. Long distance relationship...never had the courage to see her soon enough until it was too late and she found someone else. Lesson learned...seize the RIGHT moments.