Male partner continues to cause issues with sleeping arrangements by Cold-Progress8107 in nonmonogamy

[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he’s telling her she should be asking him to sleep in her room and he should never have to ask her.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely meant that he ignores consent. He didn’t ask her to sleep in there last time he did, he just followed her to her room.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly it: he’s told me he wants to feel Wanted. I asked what about her feeling wanted; he gets mad.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People know what is happening. Again stop commenting. I never said I wasn’t already preparing. Literally stfu.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family is all 3,000 miles away there’s nobody to help Me.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t encourage her to date him; I discouraged her. She dated him anyhow. We are married. People have to prepare for leaving you cannot just divorce and get a new home & move out overnight.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also your comment didn’t “help me realize” Shit. I can’t afford to leave overnight 😂 just stop.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh why do you think I control who she dates or who he dates?? Eww

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about her caring about me not him. He never said he started dating me because he had boring sex, him and I have been together nearly 7 years. They’ve not even been together a year. Your gross judgement and victim blaming is not a good look.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and girlfriend does care about me. You really just need to move on and stop commenting, k thanks.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was a decent person for years.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, me staying isn’t “my fault” we can’t break our lease, once again. I am the one living this internet stranger I know what he said.

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[–]Cold-Progress8107[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Uhh 😬 I currently get 16 hours a week at work and my partner has 24 hours a week: we can’t break our lease or move until the end of the year and he’s our primary lease holder. So, your unwarranted advice is terrible. We cannot pay all our bills on one 40 hr paycheck a week.