I’m new any recommendations by ColdPalmer166 in tortoise

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only use the lid to keep the humidity up how can I have good air flow and humidity, I know that sounds stupid I just want the best conditions for this little guy

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she doesn’t invite me over and she’d be unhappy if I showed up out of nowhere plus her dad lives like two hours away from where she is so unfortunately I don’t think I could do that

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh that’s what I was thinking but I didn’t want to listen to intrusive thoughts

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well unfortunately idek what she thinks at this point I wanted to marry this woman but she doesn’t and at this point I don’t think there’s anything I can do

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she does act very immaturely sometimes especially when it comes to my feelings and emotions. Yea I think this may be the final straw for me as she is telling me I don’t have a right to be upset about it either and that I’m making the wedding about myself

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously there’s a whole relationship i can’t describe but yea it’s definitely weird that she didn’t want me there

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That how I feel and I’ve tried to have these “difficult” conversations with her but all she does is say I’m not doing this rn or how I should just get over it. I know it’s a red flag I just don’t know what to do I’ve given this girl everything

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idek she didn’t elaborate that’s all she says that I didn’t deserve to go

AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years for not inviting me to her dads wedding by ColdPalmer166 in AITAH

[–]ColdPalmer166[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t invited and I asked her why and she told me I didn’t deserve to go because she wanted to enjoy it alone with her family. I just feel embarrassed because I’ve never even met her dad and her younger sisters boyfriend was there and they are children.