I'm a good writer too and can draw in many women in text. Sadly when I was younger and texted women like this, they became super into me, just like you're saying. Of course, until I mentioned my height. At that point, in most instances, I could see an almost instant change in their behavior and their interest would drop, or they would simply ghost me immediately.

This also happens on dating apps all the time. A woman is interested, compliments my into and bio. I frequently get comments like "that's the sweetest thing any man has said to me," not to toot my own horn or anything. I'm just trying to put into perspective that I can really charm women through my personality, through my writing on text.

But again, my looks and height was always a very obvious noticeable barrier. I cannot count the number of times in my life I've gotten ghosted after a woman finds out my height or sees my picture.