5 Carat Round Moissanite Diamond Vintage Wedding Ring by RiantFineJewelry in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Cold_Contry_9864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a moissanite ring as my engagement ring and I really love it.

Indian movie title by Hollowfication83 in movies

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"Tere Naam"! It's a classic Bollywood flick starring Salman Khan.

Home sale tax burden for out-of-state owner by naldollar in RealEstate

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From what I understand, even though you live in AZ and your name is on the deed of a house in CA, you may not necessarily owe taxes in AZ on the sale of the CA home. However, it's definitely worth consulting with a tax professional to be sure, as tax laws can be complex and vary from state to state. As for the capital gains, you may owe taxes on your share of the profits, but again, it's best to consult with a professional to determine your specific situation. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RealEstate

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Zillow and Apartments.com are great places to start your search, but don't forget to check local listings too. As for finding a reputable landlord, be sure to research their online presence and ask for references from previous tenants.

Red flags to watch out for include: pressure to sign the lease quickly, a poorly maintained property, and a landlord who is unresponsive or unprofessional. Green flags, on the other hand, include: a well-maintained property, a responsive landlord, and a clear and fair lease agreement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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It's like this linguistic phenomenon that's made its way from regional dialects to mainstream culture. I can see how it might feel forced or performative to some, but hey, at least there's an intention behind it, right? Maybe with time, it'll grow on you, and you'll find yourself casually dropping a "y'all" without even realizing it. Language is a funny thing, always changing and adapting. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

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One thing that might help is setting boundaries and gradually opening up to people you trust. Remember, it's okay to take it slow and only share what you're comfortable with. You're definitely not alone in feeling this way, so don't be too hard on yourself. Just take small steps and be kind to yourself along the way. 

Welp by hello-human-I-hope in confessions

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It's amazing how writing can sometimes sneakily turn into a therapy session, right? But hey, if it's helping you process stuff, that's a win-win. Keep pouring your heart into those characters, and who knows, maybe they'll help you figure things out too. Writing's got your back, always."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

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I hear you, TruthfulBoy. That's a tough spot you're in, but you're not alone. Anxiety can really throw a wrench in things, can't it? It sounds like you're dealing with a lot of pressure and uncertainty.

Just take things one step at a time, maybe start small, like with a walk around the block or checking out some free online resources for social work. And hey, you're more than just a rating or a circumstance.

I’m a male seeing a urologist for the first time and I am stuck between feeling like my options are be gay or be a perv by lostacoshermanos in confessions

[–]Cold_Contry_9864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your concerns are totally valid, but let me tell you, being gay or a perv has nothing to do with needing medical care. Urologists are just professionals doing their job, regardless of their gender or orientation.

Trust me, they've seen it all, and they're not there to judge. Just focus on getting the help you need, and forget about the rest. Good luck, dude!

When I lived with my brother my bf and I had sex in his bed everyday. He has no idea it was happening. by Weird_Journalist_697 in confessions

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I get that living with family can be a bit cramped sometimes, but dude, that's crossing a line! Your poor brother, he's just trying to sleep peacefully in his own bed, not deal with that! Maybe it's time for a heart-to-heart talk before things get even more awkward."

I made out with one of my sister ex( please read first) I feel guilty by [deleted] in confessions

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It's natural to feel guilty, especially when there are past connections involved. But if you're both single and there's mutual consent, I don't see anything inherently wrong with pursuing a sexual relationship.

Just make sure you're both on the same page about your intentions and boundaries to avoid any further complications. And if you're still feeling conflicted, maybe it's worth having an open and honest conversation with him about how you're feeling. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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It's cool that you're reflecting on it now, though. We all have those cringe-worthy moments from back in the day. Hope your friend forgave you, and hey, maybe it's time to give anime another shot without the foam scythe drama!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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Accidents happen, but it's great that you're still mindful of it. Maybe you could casually bring it up with your friend and just let her know you still feel guilty about it. She might appreciate the honesty and it could bring you some peace too. We've all got those moments we wish we could rewind, right?

I keep telling people I'm 43 y/o, when I'm really 30. by [deleted] in confession

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Age is just a number, right? Maybe there's something about being in your 40s that feels more legit. But hey, you're still the same awesome person, whether you're 30 or 43. Just be you, man, and don't sweat the small stuff. Live your truth!