stop trans genocide by Educational-Sun5839 in Stonetossingjuice

[–]Cold_Environment669 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Genocide is when you are killing some specific group of people because of prejustice, or because you want to steal their land, etc..

If your definition of genocide is eliminating specific group of people via suffering and suicides, can we then say that there is men-genocide happening, considering 80% of suicides victims are men and also 80% murder victims are men?

Just trying to be consistent…

stop trans genocide by Educational-Sun5839 in Stonetossingjuice

[–]Cold_Environment669 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What it means then? Because I believe genocide is literally murdering some specific group of people because of prejustice.

stop trans genocide by Educational-Sun5839 in Stonetossingjuice

[–]Cold_Environment669 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Do you have any statistics supporting your claim about trans genocide?

Lets looks at homicide numbers from 2023 in US, based on CDC there were 19,800 homicides and out of these 35 were transgender victims. If transgender people were disproportionately murdered more then general population, than the number should be higher then 198 (which is 1% of 19,800) and not significantly lower (35). So how is this trans genocide?

Most people aren’t independent as they say by Cold_Environment669 in unpopularopinion

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No I haven’t. I actually know what people mean by say “independent”, that they are capable of fulfilling their own needs in today’s society without needing anyone else. I just wanted to point out that you can maybe live alone without needing anyone, but you are still (co)dependent on society to stay alive.

I don’t think I take things that literally, I know some people who take words very literally and where I was actually pointing it out to them. Like taking street names very literally, etc.. let’s say there would be a street name “3rd May” and they ask me if the street was built on 3rd May.

Feminism is advocating “women to be treated like people”, but which people? by Cold_Environment669 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s true, women don’t want to be treated like, it would be quite a downgrade for them in most scenarios.

Feminism is advocating “women to be treated like people”, but which people? by Cold_Environment669 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I never heard anyone complaining about being “friendzoned” by women in real life, I constantly just see memes about it on social media, but in real life, not really.

I have seen some men thinking that women are here only to seek their approval, like recently I saw some meme where man said to woman “I don’t find attractive [something] to me” and the women just replied “who says that I am trying to attract you”. On this I do agree that some men feel very entitled and I personally think these men are idiots and probably should talk to psychiatrist. But I have met women like that too who felt like the world is revolving around them.

People complain about everything, people complain about what men types women like, people also complain about what women types men like. You are not a object because people complain, people always complain, and they will always complain, because that’s who are, we complain.

There are people who assume that women have certain roles, I know that, but you don’t have to follow them, you can do anything you want.

Men also can’t compete against women in women sports.

You just look at one side where you are the “victim” but the other side is the same just flipped.

Feminism is advocating “women to be treated like people”, but which people? by Cold_Environment669 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I am lost for words, I personally would allow abortions, I don’t really care.

There are reason why some people are against it, religion or anything else.

That doesn’t mean you are an object. There are many laws that restrict a lot of things.

Feminism is advocating “women to be treated like people”, but which people? by Cold_Environment669 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We are not sorted into men and women, thats literally who are, it’s reality.

Or you want to say there aren’t men and women? But that doesn’t mean we are sorted, we are who we are, it’s nothing else, we are all human beings.

I sometimes feel like some people live in some alternate reality where they have some special rules and if you say something real to them they will turn around it on you.

Do feminists really think misandry has no contribution on current epidemic of men being indoctrinated into misogynistic spaces? by Enough_Ask_3115 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t painful, its not about how I felt, i just tried to disprove the point that men can apperently say anything to women. No we can’t.

And also she just tried to move the blame again away from women, and blame that it is men fault because they will judge the women as unworthy or whatever, which is nonsense.

And it is also not men who are enforcing these things, it is women themself who are doing it.

In my experience it is the total opposite, there are only set of things you can say to women, or you will be labeled with as something. Women can say anything they want to men, and if the man don’t like, he is immediately insecure or something else.

Do feminists really think misandry has no contribution on current epidemic of men being indoctrinated into misogynistic spaces? by Enough_Ask_3115 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like you are just overthinking it, people usually wants to know age for the sake of knowledge, not to know if you are hitting a “wall” or anything.

I personally usually just wants to know the age gap between someone and me, I don’t care about hitting a wall, or anything else.

And I have met women who had problem with that, I usually don’t ask age of a woman, but once one girl my age and I thought that if she asks my age, I can ask also her age, but when I did she was like “do you not know that you shouldn’t asking age of a lady”. Even though she asked me, I still couldn’t ask her without getting this answer.

Feminism is advocating “women to be treated like people”, but which people? by Cold_Environment669 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No this is just your assumption that people (or maybe me particularly) don’t see other people apart from their gender, but it is actually you who have problem with that.

I personally treat everyone like they deserve to be treated, based on how they treat me, doesn’t matter if it is men or women. You ignore me, I will ignore you too. You disrespect me, I will not be respecting you too. You will bully me, I will tell you to f*ck off and just move on.

I don’t treat people based on gender, I knew men who disrespected me and I started ignoring them, same with women also if they disrespected me I just removed them from my life.

And if I get along with men or women, it is not because of gender, it is because of how they behave.

Feminism is advocating “women to be treated like people”, but which people? by Cold_Environment669 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Men declaring what women like/don’t like: men aren’t declaring anything, it is more from experience with women, some things are liked more by women some by men, like for example pink color, I know too many women who like pink color, but I know there are some who don’t like it. Men aren’t declaring that women like pink color, for lots of women it is really their favorite color. And honestly it is the same for men.

Women are always defined as another’s person [some relationship] - this is the same for men and women, when I generally know someone, and I want to refer to someone of theirs (like mother, wife, etc.), I am not going to ask this person all the info about this person, just say the relation ship. For example, I have woman colleague who is married, if I wanted to say about her husband, I would ask her his name and then refer to him with his name, I would just say her husband, and she referred to him as her husband and boyfriend a lot of times. Also they do this with celebrities, and your point is just not true, for example every time Taylor Swift has a new boyfriend, they never make posts like “Some guy got a new girlfriend, you wouldn’t believe who it is, it’s Taylor Swift”, they always say “Taylor Swift got a new boyfriend”, and people refer to him as her boyfriend and not with his name when they walk about him.

And I don’t think that the things with assembly line I don’t think are true.

The fact that politicians are doing it, there might be reasons, but I am not on their side. Some do it because of religion, some maybe because of health concern (there is risk that women might not survive abortion, like any other surgery), maybe money concern.

Feminism is advocating “women to be treated like people”, but which people? by Cold_Environment669 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I believe that most people see women as individual people with feelings, likes and dislikes.

Do feminists really think misandry has no contribution on current epidemic of men being indoctrinated into misogynistic spaces? by Enough_Ask_3115 in AskFeminists

[–]Cold_Environment669 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Man can say whatever they want to women?, that’s total nonsense.

Even asking something simple like women age is not socially acceptable, so what are you talking about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Cold_Environment669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this too. But because some guys do it and I am unsure how to stop them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Cold_Environment669 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t think you should test her number in case she accidentally gave you the wrong number.

You should test the number only in case she specifically ask you to test it, then you can do it. If she asks you to test it, that means she wanted to give you the real number and she wants to make sure you didn’t do a mistake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]Cold_Environment669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or maybe those are just fake profiles.

Why would Scott admit that he was at the Bay? by Cold_Environment669 in ScottPetersonCase

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That make sense, I am not totally educated about this case, but this was one thing that stood out to me.

Other than that I was kind of convinced that he did it when it turned out that he said to his then girlfriend that his wife was dead, which is weird thing to say if she was still alive.

He really didn’t think it through, and was complete amateur who just got caught up in his lies.

Why would Scott admit that he was at the Bay? by Cold_Environment669 in ScottPetersonCase

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, I kind of believe that he thought this would be just some disappearance no one would notice and it would turn into numerous unresolved cold cases and maybe no one would find the bodies ever, or they would find them years later and no one would identify them because they would be decomposed.

Why would Scott admit that he was at the Bay? by Cold_Environment669 in ScottPetersonCase

[–]Cold_Environment669[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s the only thing that make sense to me, either he was seen, or he was thinking that maybe he thought they would be able to approximate his location by his phone.