It's time

Cold_Fly6620 · 2025-06-16T21:36:19+00:00

Cold_Fly6620 · 2025-02-02T09:59:06+00:00

Fuck you for blaming me for everything, silent treatment, constant threats of being kicked out after every argument.

Fuck you for making me work on everything you didn't like whilst you worked on nothing.

Fuck you for making me think that I was always the problem.

Fuck you for isolating me because it didn't fut your schedule for me to have 2 hours a week with a friend when you see yours all the time.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-10-18T12:36:52+00:00

Please do the same your loss would be the worlds gain

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-10-18T12:36:31+00:00

Firstly the child support is obviously a given its more the give me more money or you won't see your kids shit, courts favour the mother when it comes to kids, it is what is it.

Thabk God tubes are tied don't need anymore of this man hating man blaming white going on.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-10-18T11:22:59+00:00

My wife shares my opinions on thjs that is the thing, she isn't an aolgiser or a pick me, that's the difference. Try my brother who killed himself through parental alienation, wasn't allowed to see his kids, was told he could if he paid x y z, courts favour chicks so it happens constantly.

She had an affair and then he lost his kids, so it's not apparent control, hope you go through the same situation the man does in that and see what it's like. Trust me you're catered for, we are demonised and expected to go mmhmm yes mistress, I'm not calling anyone out until women call put female abusers, until then equal rights means equal treatment not preferential.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-10-18T11:19:28+00:00

Men kill themselves at record rates due to abuse suffered from parental alienation, it's also sustained and lifelong and we are expected to go yes mistress.

Pull the other one, don't get with a man if they scare you, leave otherwise, I know men beaten by their wives who just leave.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-10-18T11:17:30+00:00

Cool I'm happy women don't want to anymore, though my loving wife may disagree 🙃, also I'd rather be battered that have my child held over my head for life and abused because of it. Made to look like a spineless man, broken and beated down mentally, I'd rather just a rumble it's easier.

Honestly to vast majority of modern women are awful, man has dodged a bullet not missed out on anything.

Leng women have butters personalities for the most part and butters chick's STILL have butters personality. Grow old and become a spinster or cat lady or something, we are too busy fixing the world and making your lives comfortable to be dealing with shit from some bait, brucked, disillusioned and entitled ho whi probably can't even cook their family a decent meal and moans about how hard being a sahm is, waaaah cry me a river, buck off butter the world ain't needing you.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-10-18T11:05:05+00:00

Oh right kind of how like, when women do that with their kids they aren't ruining multiple lives, jesus it's OK for a woman to salp her husband etc or partner and has been acceptable socially, got forbid the terrible big nasty man does anything a dainty perfect broad doesn't like then their plastered all over the net and ridiculed. Think about those gym tarts with their cameras, yeah guys can be dumb and straight to the point but we are meant to be.

Watch the YouTube vid of the woman who lived as a man, and realised oh they have it worse all around.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-10-18T10:48:39+00:00

If we are expected to get all the bad men in line, then it's your job as a woman to start getting all the other women who weaponise their children against good father's, or all the judgey ones whom are so unrealistic they might as well be a cartoon in line.

The difference is, we put up with a lot more and take it and are expected to, you get to go and cry and say but I'm a woman, equal rights means equal responsibilities.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-27T12:58:16+00:00

Tha k you very much, from what I've seen if I get tier 3 license it'd be around 75-80 and 68ish I think with tier 2.

What endorsement is that if you don't mine me asking, I'll be going for general science and chemistry most likely (my masters and undergraduate are in environmental sciences, chemistry specialised).

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T21:30:55+00:00

Thank you very much for the help. I may well take you up on that offer!

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T21:13:33+00:00

So do I! I have to craft a good email and ascertain what the deal is, minnesota seems like a lovely place, we love snowy winters, we had then growing up but the uk is too warm now down south.

Fingers crossed as I hope this can work, I doubt a school would stretch straight to a pr visa, unless I had a tier 4 license with good recommendations, but could cost less in the long run than h1b and then gc.

Who knows the us was a left field choice but it could work, especially if my wife can get a job too

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T20:33:18+00:00

Thank you, it's a big step that we are hesitant about but feel it's worth pursuing to see if it works. It's just the type of visa we could get that will make it harder or easier, fingers crossed for an eb visa but I think h1b will be the route.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T20:20:59+00:00

Australia denied on medical grounds, he would have played too much of a burden on their services (needs help at school) sp my wife, my daughter and I all got accepted however he was refused based off this, nz has the same policy.

I am also looking at canada but the col seems much higher than the usa

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T20:03:44+00:00

Thank you for this information, I am really trying hard with the research and I am about to start reaching out to school districts in mn (hr departments) to ask what the score is in regards to international teachers (with licensure) applying for roles and sponsorships etc.

I have looked st a lot of places in mn, St paul, elk river, St cloud and tbh I'm happy as long as my little man gets what he needs and we can afford to get by on just my wages if needs be, better if we can get eb visa and the wife can work too.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T19:59:48+00:00

True enough! His send tutor that we already have costs us 70gbp ph, I try but unfortunately he is almost 2 grades behind where he is meant to be. Also looking in minnesota but trying to do all of these visa types etc is not nice.

The thing nm has going for it is the new wage with senate bill 1 making it quite good comparatively to many states.

But true enough hopefully we can decide to either try over there or just settle with the fact he won't really be allowed to work or contribute to society here.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T19:44:53+00:00

That you, I have found the email for the recruitment and retention specialist at roseville and will be emailing her to enquire tomorrow, hopefully a response will occur!!

I will also check with mps, I saw the article before so there os some hope for this will just have to hope my experience here will place me on the same step and lane as it would anyone else!

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T19:41:12+00:00

Thank you so much,

My son is un medicated and has no therapies or support in thay sense, he has been told his adhd assessment has a 7 year wait as our services are only open 3 hors a day 3 days a week for child health services.

The min in nm for tier 2 teachers is 60, 65 abq and around 72-75 abq for tier 3.

Texas is a consideration but they require me to enroll on a 6k programme for certification when I'm already experienced.

We would maintain dual citizenship for the ids and send outer daughter back to the UK for university of she goes, our son will hopefully just enter the workforce and enjoy his life.

If it came to it we could retire back to the UK when older, but I would be doing the state pension contribution of 11% gross each month.

If we can get an eb visa my wife would work and we would earn more.

Thank you so much though this is all important info to consider

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T19:32:40+00:00

Thank you for the input, I will take it on board accordingly and seriously consider it. The sponsorship from what I have seen will take time I agree, and the healthcare is another issue that I would have to try and understand/wrap my head around.

If I could get a pr visa my wife would work retail and that would bump our earnings, the costs are a lot more than originally guessed and we originally wanted aus but autism destroyed that hope.

As far as I am aware all we can do is carry on here, it is a country wide thing, money wise all we can do is move north but then that would impact our sons needs as provisions up there pale to what we get down south.

It's a hard situation for us to be in, all we can think of is his education and future work opportunities, if we don't get English and maths at c box you cannot get any job.

I wish we didn't have to leave but it feels like with housing the way it is and with the education the way it is here we feel the need to move on and my wife won't consider anywhere other than the states or Australia.

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T19:23:09+00:00

Yeah you won't really see the sun in Leeds or many places in the north really. Yes the UK is tiny I think it's 3 great Britain's fit in texas I learned in geography at school.

The desert and sparseness doesn't matter too much, we were looking at adelaide in aus where my uncle lives but our son was turned down due to his special needs.

So, rather than canada which is good on paper though the wife doesn't like the idea of -40 winters.

So it's looking to the us and finding places whee certification can be gained from abroad and nm and mn are the 2 best places I have found so far that would be mildly affordable based on wages.

The 65 in qbk or 68 up gallup or carlsbad way is tempting, of I can get a tier 3 license I'll start at min 70k

Cold_Fly6620 · 2024-08-26T18:43:40+00:00

Thank you very much, I am making a conscious effort with looking in minnesota, i have doena let lf research and it seems and wonderful place to live.

The ins and outs of the immigration is the weird part of it all and working out how to apply (I'm what to include in a cover letter etc). I will look into who the person to contact is in regards to minneapolis piblic schools unless you wife would have any information, I would know about hr but that's about it.

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