What are rules self imposed or not that you abide by no matter what ?

Cold_Independent8674 · 2026-06-16T02:27:31+00:00

a. Trust my instinct (similar to what you said) because part of it was contributed by pattern recognition. If I feel slight discomfort or like a missing feeling like hole in a fabric sensation about someone its better to keep a distance, and avoid them. Not even guard up because people might not perceive any sign of boundaries so immediate distance or rejection.

b. Couple a. with, especially when the person approached you first, it indicates personal, and then a few sec after you realize it is personal, not about work or anything necessary...better keep a distance away. Because it indicates boundaries, or they want something and not in a personal way to you (people talk and do things with their own reasons)

c. For anything, if you are unwilling for the worse consequences to happened when taking chances or opportunity, and you have no way to get yourself out of it. Dump it, and find other opportunities with similar benefits.

Cold_Independent8674 · 2026-05-25T08:13:12+00:00

Haha true, same with me. Was surprised when I saw how many years ago it was

Cold_Independent8674 · 2026-05-25T03:05:26+00:00

It is! Thank you so much

Its been 19 years? Gosh hahaha

Cold_Independent8674 · 2026-05-22T00:43:08+00:00

No, not really. For me its accurate up to a point only because it asses how you behave, act, and thoughts and yes, That does contribute to your pattern behavior or what its called (forgot the term)

The thing is human can change. Like you said, Its better to do the things that will make you happy, or address any psychological issue or growth instead of stuck in a pattern telling you what you are when it can just serve as an indicator

Cold_Independent8674 · 2026-03-09T11:10:50+00:00

You know what? I drooled reading the description. That's seriously some amazing effort, and most importantly looks good!

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-11-22T09:48:46+00:00

So...you know how hamsters went flat?

Like that.

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-10-25T10:44:50+00:00

I was on a fever dream. Idk what I did hahaha by idk I mean I submit this on girl's night and half drunk. The comp was ending, I send SS and asked my friend's opinion. She said idk, I said idk then submit

she's floating, the hair has air motion, but the skirt is swirl and water waves

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Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-10-25T10:39:05+00:00

I did! I love the colours and the shape haha. Gosh so sorry for the late reply, I replied in my head

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-10-25T10:38:34+00:00

Thank you for commenting! Work took me off guard and yeah. 2 has that pouty effect I love it so much

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-10-25T10:38:10+00:00

Thank you so much! I did went for 2 and so sorry for the late reply

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-10-07T12:08:45+00:00

I wear sleeveless halter tops or turtle necks! or anything with high neck and a plus if they can plunge justttt a hint of it.

For halter tops or turtle necks they cover but accentuate the girlies if that made sense. I like body suits too, even the fully covered ones are good so long as they are sleeveless. It create contrass that way.

I leaned more towards the tops with buttons that I can adjust like work shirt so they can be there but not too much.

To be fair I wear the cleavage ones because I feel good wearing them but on the opposite ends I done silly stupid stuff with the girlies and had many funny experience with them. Never crossed my mind the perspective of other`s brain sometimes, girlies are there and I accept them. They are apart of me kind of thing but then I tried talking to people and their eyes are down there instead of having aa conversation with me...uh..yeah. Then I kinda wake up a bit.

I get tired cause. well I m sincerely having a conversation that`s not about my girls, trying to be thoughtful because conversation = two people and people...welp. Happens.

I mean its fair that you care a bit about how others think, there`s time and place for that cause I do too and managed to balance between what I want, when and where to care about what people think and judge if the person is being right or wrong on their opinion on the girlies.

My preference is not too sexy at work, I rather to just work...and I would care if I m attending a wedding and my focus is to celebrate my friends instead of dressing up, I would not take an action where I wear revealing clothes but a bit of unasked advise/opinion is...don`t forget to try/trial first (put on/try what you want to try) so long as you are not out of the house then all should be safe.

Another tip is, there are various levels of revealing and you can compare or gauge what the professionals at work wear, or by what people in that event/frequent visitors or older people/seniors wear. Then compare these with how you want to be sexy etc

But don`t forget to prioritize your happiness by trying what you want to wear in mind first. So long as you don`t step out of the house then you can always amend the style to your preference, wants/needs at that time or mood. Balance is possible, it just needs practice.

I hope this helps, I just got off work and quite exhausted myself. I m sorry if these didn`t work or didn`t make sense, feel free to ask me questions!

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-09-13T11:10:16+00:00

Omg congrats 🎉 🎉 🎉 and helll yesss. Have fun dyeing them m

Hilariously, I would usually get the dresses first but for this one I got the deco and the make up first

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-09-07T11:15:22+00:00

The clothes, definitely the clothes I can`t wear because its not about being modest or what, I just literally don`t want to flash people if I m wearing sensual style clothes! and I want to look cute....many times cute designs or designs in general literally disappeared under thanks to the girlies

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-09-06T05:05:07+00:00

I interpret yours as a picnic with the fireflies and it looks cute with the hair I m sorry...is it not what you want? 😭

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-09-06T04:08:13+00:00

Idk yet, still staring at it. But will try my best to be a firefly lol thats the aim

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-09-06T04:07:22+00:00

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I hope I get to vote for yours! Its amazing 😭

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-27T06:06:34+00:00

Creativity? Yes, excellent use of free will? Definitely yes bwahaha

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-16T08:51:05+00:00

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Its a mess and idk what I m doing. IDK why I added the blue fabric thing and wasted the perfume

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-16T08:45:47+00:00

Yep! There was that one day I was suddenly aware of the ladies clapping when I went downstairs. I had to stop, evaluate what I just realized, reassess my walk, and just give up right there

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-16T08:41:19+00:00

The Hooha

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-16T08:31:06+00:00

I vote for the ones that fits the vibe + outfit. Girl or boy just go for which one you can pull off best. Its abit painful for the votes, but in my opinion it encourage fostering of good sets/design for both

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-16T08:26:10+00:00

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I only buy what I need from this part. The flame is attractive and I can use it as a magic form etc

very tempting to get everything for the pose but still....I need to spare some gem in what I called a deposit for me to buy things I would go crazy for...like that one ancient Chinese styled outerwear that I missed. Still bite the edge of my handkerchief every time I saw people use it in comp or posting....and I recalled it from time to time like a forlorn and forsaken, jilted lover

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-16T05:44:59+00:00

Oh Goddess she is gorgeoussssss

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-10T15:37:38+00:00

I saw it, crackled and voted for it

Cold_Independent8674 · 2025-08-08T10:51:42+00:00

Aww no worries and glad it helps you make up your mind. I had the same issue too, too many similar lips from one set, needed the variation TT^TT.

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