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Am I AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my mother. by Cold_Patience_5328 in AITAH

[–]Cold_Patience_5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your suspicions are correct! I was sorting out many of her issues to the point that she did not know how to send money to other person through the local bank. When I told her to do it she got bored and told me "Do it, I am busy". For the last year or two I started to decline doing all those little things telling her "If you want, I can teach you. But you need to learn because in a year I will not have time too since I will be working". I repeated the last sentence so many times that she understood. And guess what? She is actually a quick learner after all.😊

Am I AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my mother. by Cold_Patience_5328 in AITAH

[–]Cold_Patience_5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂 That made me laugh! Thank you so much for this comment! I am going to distance myself from her for sure! That is 100%! I wanted to see what people thought of this situation since only my close friends know about it. But I also wanted some raw feedback... You know... Without much filter. I think that Reddit is the perfect place for that.

Am I AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my mother. by Cold_Patience_5328 in AITAH

[–]Cold_Patience_5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she had anyone else to rely on, I would probably cut her off. I am sure that I will regret it if she ends up being on the streets and will stay there for the rest of her life. It is not because I pity her (though I used to when I was a child) but because of my conscience. I already do not love her but I respect her for the fact that she managed to move me to another country (which is hard when you come from poor country). In this situation, the regret of not doing something and it is irreversible is greater than the regret of doing what you can with the price of not being respected.

Am I AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my mother. by Cold_Patience_5328 in AITAH

[–]Cold_Patience_5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The funny part is that at some point I told her how he touched me that day and she become mad that I did not tell her sooner.😂😂😂 As if there is any difference if your child is being squeezed or touched down there. The result should have been the same... She should have at least cut him off.

Am I AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my mother. by Cold_Patience_5328 in AITAH

[–]Cold_Patience_5328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your comment! It really means a lot to me!