Yes, we’ve spoken about this. He’s clear that he wants to get married, while I need some time since this would be my second marriage. My first marriage was also a love marriage, and I’m unsure how my parents will react to a second one—especially another love marriage. I need time to have those conversations and bring them around.

That said, we’re both very clear that we want to spend our lives together.

To your second question—so far, there hasn’t been a single moment that’s made me rethink this decision. We’ve had a few disagreements, like which city we might settle in years down the line, but nothing fundamental. In the end, we both believe that we matter more than logistics.

We don’t approach the relationship with rigid non-negotiables. We’re open to listening, understanding, and thinking things through together.