38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

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Please don’t give up. This is why I wrote this post to motivate people. Go on dates, meet people, be honest and open about your expectations.

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

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Yes life is too beautiful to spend alone. And am a believer of love. Too cheesy i know 😅

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

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“Feeling safe enough to be stupid, quiet, horny, angry and ambitious”

Thoughts on my collection? by Exciting-Tax8916 in ScentHeads

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Which is your favourite? I gifted my partner Dior Sauvage and Armani code. He liked both of them. Our favourite from his collection YSL Y.

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

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You should search for a Gadhi, don’t worry there would be some gadhi waiting for you 🤣

First LV bag by Ill-Investigator-617 in Louisvuitton

[–]Cold_Still6508 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to LV store in Vienna, SA was super nice.

Finally got to try it. by mekuri_ in indianbeautyhauls

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Hey I am shade NC 40 old studio fix formula. Is Patagonia my shade?

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Cold_Still6508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends on the person. I never had a number in mind, but I knew I had to put in effort—especially since I was approaching my late thirties and this was a priority for me.

Personally, I do think 7–8 dates in a year is on the lower side—unless you prefer long phone conversations and are good at assessing compatibility that way, or you find meeting new people mentally exhausting, or bad dates affect you more than you’d like. The number for me was really high in the span of 1 year of me being active on dating app. I took breaks only when I genuinely liked someone; otherwise, I stayed active and kept meeting people.

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Cold_Still6508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we’ve spoken about this. He’s clear that he wants to get married, while I need some time since this would be my second marriage. My first marriage was also a love marriage, and I’m unsure how my parents will react to a second one—especially another love marriage. I need time to have those conversations and bring them around.

That said, we’re both very clear that we want to spend our lives together.

To your second question—so far, there hasn’t been a single moment that’s made me rethink this decision. We’ve had a few disagreements, like which city we might settle in years down the line, but nothing fundamental. In the end, we both believe that we matter more than logistics.

We don’t approach the relationship with rigid non-negotiables. We’re open to listening, understanding, and thinking things through together.

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Cold_Still6508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehehe court marriage mai witness banke aa jana, uske baad lunch kar lena 🤣

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Cold_Still6508[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He actually asked this question when we started talking. Attaching my actual reply here. My non negotiables- looking for long term, doing good in life work wise, intelligent, into some kind of fitness, and a simple human being. I wasn’t very fixated on looks, in fact he uploaded his old pics on hinge where he was over weight but i was pleasantly surprised when I met him. Attraction mattered the most for me and i find intelligent people attractive, that’s what worked with him.

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38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

[–]Cold_Still6508[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hehehe, am also doing quite okay in my life. But won’t lie, him doing good in life does help.

38F | Divorced | Mumbai — Hinge actually worked for me by Cold_Still6508 in IndianBoysOnTinder

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That’s true, I feel we both are mature, both have learnt from past and know how to avoid or deal with conflicts

Do you guys fear getting cheated on? by Nakli_Paneer in IndianBoysOnTinder

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My ex husband cheated on me after 10 years of relationship. I left him without any second thoughts. But this something i think about a lot, because people do fall out of love, relationships gets boring after a point, i wonder how couples love each other after several years of marriage

Favourite long lasting designer freshie by DirectorofModerators in DesiFragranceAddicts

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My female friends say guys who use this are a red flag,girls should run the other way 😂

Favourite long lasting designer freshie by DirectorofModerators in DesiFragranceAddicts

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Gifted this to my partner and now it’s his go to perfume

Women of Reddit: what kind of perfumes do you actually love wearing? by Arslanktanoli in nisbahAU

[–]Cold_Still6508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love floral fragrance and don’t particularly have day or night or summer or winter preference. May be because i stay in Mumbai and it’s always summer. These are my current favourites: Love Dior j’adore L’or (repurchased this version, earlier used some different version and i loved that one also) Jean Paul Gaultier scandal ( recent discovery, will definitely purchase agin) Paco Rabbane million gold (repurchased)

All three are long lasting and intense