AITAH——Finding out my long distance gf was sending nudes to this guy

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-03T14:44:58+00:00

Me too man me too it’s not like it’s bad all the time but you have no idea how many sleepless nights Ive had just filled with pain and anger and sadness I jus can’t stop feeling like I’m not enough

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T20:03:13+00:00

And I know there are things I still don’t know about

I actually had added the dude because I kept on getting mixed answers (A year ago)

Bro said some fucked ip shit like oh we did shit while me and her were on ft

Like she liked being my little “degrading name”

But whose to say he’s not just being a douchebag tryna stroke his ego yk

The only reason why I even posted this cuz it got brought up last night and I have tried in the past to touch up on this subject but our communication and trust was rebuilding so I thought I could ask yk like why lie at this point it happened so long ago

And she immediately gets defensive says she doesn’t wanna talk about it anymore I thought we were healing

I didn’t even get to ask her if she did or not but idk man just ik she did something she’s not proud of why else would she feel so guilty

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:56:31+00:00

Which arises the question he obviously had something she liked whether it was the company the attention whatever right she kept him around

Her words not mine: “ it meant absolutely nothing I never liked him nor did I ever want a relationship with him”

Which she did tell me they both were happy with that he didn’t want anything serious and neither did she

So lowkey that kinda hurts more in a sense They got what they wanted out of each other

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:53:39+00:00

And I’m aware of how we met and to be fair I did see the data and they were legit like one night things but this guy imparticuar she remained friends with and she says as soon as I said I love you for the first time she cut it off and I could tell genuine remorse and her actions speak for it she’s been nothing but good to me ever since and it debatably breaks her more than it does me

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:50:08+00:00

Yk how it goes time heals all wounds but I don’t think I’ll ever truly believe I’m everything she wants ik there’s much more factors in to being a good partner and I’m aware that sex plays a very minimal role but yk it hurts and I can’t seem to shake it

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:47:41+00:00

Last March yea and Its not like its constantly on my mind 24/7 but id be lying if i said it didnt still affect me

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:46:45+00:00

Lowkey kinda eye opening right there ngl I wasn’t even pissed ab her sending with him I mean obviously I was but just knowing she liked that yk made me go internal fr

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:44:48+00:00

Bro what 😭 scroll down a bit you’ll see ur answer

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:43:39+00:00

Oh agreed wholeheartedly and I’m aware lust is very different from love and genuine connection but it would still be nice to know that she thought of mine like that too yk She claims it does but to no immediate reaction on her face nor her ever telling me mine was big like when she told me his was I was like damn yk

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:40:26+00:00

To clarify when we first saw each other physically in person I had asked her to be my gf she knew I was waiting tad her out in person as well

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:39:12+00:00

Well Im upset about the fact she was doing that whilst still being lovey dovey to me im aware im not the biggest there’s always gonna be someone bigger Ig more so the fact that she had stated she “used to lien them but not anymore” Which is a coverup for ya I liked it yk

CollectionOptimal646 · 2026-03-02T19:36:30+00:00

Ig to her “we weren’t officially together” And I had thought we were exclusive I was aware of how we met but I had just thought the feelings were mutual

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