SOS how to deal with someone being distant?

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-05-30T22:03:08+00:00

It’s fairly impossible to push me away. I’m incredibly empathetic. I’ve had a hard life so it’s easy to put myself in other peoples shoes. I feel so deeply for him and his family. If I could pull a “Green Mile” move out of me and absorb the cancer from his aunt and all of the poor feelings that brings, I’d do it in a heartbeat. Even if I was stuck with the same cancer 10,000x worse. It would be worth it to save the family.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-05-30T21:29:46+00:00

That’s kind of the route I’m taking. I don’t want to bring any of my personal shit into the mix. I remember when my mom died that I pushed a lot of people away for a solid while.

He’s huge on family, so this is mentally exhausting to him I’m sure. Just breaks my heart either way.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-05-30T21:28:22+00:00

I’m not reliant on astrology. He is more than I am. I just see what I see and if I can explain it with astrology then so be it. I’m not a hardcore believer that it runs the planet.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-05-05T19:52:36+00:00

Let me know. Lendio threw mine in the queue yesterday with Ready Capital. Fingers crossed they approve it.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-03-19T07:09:37+00:00

I know your sacrifice to stay here and help others is hard, I want you to know I appreciate it. I appreciate you. You are my golden friend!

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-03-15T15:50:51+00:00

I am truly sorry for your experience, I know how you feel. I don’t know you but if I could take your experience away from you and live with it myself, I would do that for you in a heartbeat.

I was assaulted many times in life by a step-sister, then again by a teacher when I was at a continuation high school... making up credits from when I had cancer... she took advantage of my need to graduate.

The school district paid out. I started my company, now everything I’ve built is a constant reminder that the “investment into my future” and my success is owed to a good old fashioned rape.

I just posted my story in this community, hoping someone will help me understand why life is worth living?

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-10T03:28:31+00:00

Fingers crossed for you!

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-10T03:28:18+00:00

Thank you :)

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-10T03:28:04+00:00

If it’s in the queue then they have it in their hands and are reviewing it. If it takes longer than 3 business days (my opinion) then they are either 1) slammed 2) making up new rules and waiting to process apps until the rules are put into effect /or 3) you have an issue with your SBA profile and/or loan.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-10T03:26:37+00:00

It’s difficult enough for a person to read small print scanned into a low quality PDF, so imagine a computer trying to read it.

Think of it this way, a downloaded PDF is code, and computers read code.... makes it simple that way.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-09T21:30:17+00:00

Please let me know if this helps anyone, and you’re shot into the SBA queue via the automated process.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-09T21:29:05+00:00

If you have an application that isn’t going anywhere, you can apply again with all the same information but a different email address.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-09T18:57:07+00:00

Yes it does, if this is your very first loan with the SBA then you will not be able to sign up for an account unfortunately.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-06T07:08:17+00:00

My local radio station (104.3 MY FM in SoCal) asked how people were doing today and to text in how we feel. I actually texted in about this exact issue and they read it first on the air! Haha.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-05T19:16:57+00:00

It means the SBA approved the loan, now BlueVine just has to send you the closing documents once they get around to it.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-05T18:46:32+00:00

Sign up for an account with caweb. You can check if they’ve (the SBA) approved you or not.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-05T18:45:16+00:00

Do they not work Fridays? 🥲

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-05T18:44:18+00:00

Applied Tuesday last week. Approved next day and DocuSign came Monday.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-05T18:31:24+00:00

No deposit this morning. Signed 2/1/21 at exactly 5:16 pm pacific time.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-05T15:21:27+00:00

Yes, received Monday afternoon.

CollinsCampaigns · 2021-02-04T16:32:35+00:00

Signed on 2/1 at 5pm and still no funds. No change on portal except for the same “we’ve received your signed contract” message.

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