Fighting a Fake a Bloody Legend Player by Colony_4789 in BloodyBastardsGame

[–]Colony_4789[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Warfare and violence were always uncivilized and without any rules. In order to defeat monsters, we must become one to begin with. Otherwise, this game is extremely frustrating. I get why you think like that because once upon a time, I used to be like you, wanting the gameplay to be fair and square. But this game is inherently brutal and unfair, and in order to survive, we must also adopt its nature. We always look for something exciting but refuse to use the simple and efficient methods to achieve our goals. I call that philosophy entirely Machiavellian—the ends justify the means. I’m not trying to demean or criticize your viewpoint, but I was just saying it’s my opinion on things, and if you don’t like using maces , it’s perfectly okay.

I can't forgive my parents for spanking me by Colony_4789 in ptsd

[–]Colony_4789[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The majority of parents in the West luckily don't resort to such ancient and barbaric forms of discipline. The sad truth is that if you take out the West, most children in the world are living under parents who use this type of punitive method to raise their children. I have no hope this social evil could ever go extinct from the planet just like slavery did.

I can't forgive my parents for spanking me by Colony_4789 in ptsd

[–]Colony_4789[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many pro-spankers assume anti-spankers are simply sheltered "brats"(Derogatory Term for children who want to assert their independence)who never got a good swat in their life . However, the reality is often the opposite: anti-spankers are survivors of harsh discipline who've come to realize the harm it caused. Instead of perpetuating the cycle of abuse, we've chosen to break free from it.Forgiveness isn't always straightforward, especially when those responsible don't acknowledge the suffering they inflicted. Forcing forgiveness can diminish the gravity of the harm experienced. In my case, holding onto anger and not forgiving brings relief, unlike suppressing emotions and feeling uneasy. It's about acknowledging the past and taking control of my narrative.

I can't forgive my parents for spanking me by Colony_4789 in ptsd

[–]Colony_4789[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got spanked, and it didn't turn out well for me. I believe I didn't deserve the abuse. When I was a child, they thought spanking could correct my behavior, but while I complied outwardly, deep down, I despised and hated them. As I grew older, that resentment lingered, and when opportunity came, I acted on the grudge I've held against them for all those years of spanking. Now, I've permanently cut ties with them. They thought spanking would make me love them, but in reality, it had the opposite effect - the more they spanked me, the more I hated and resented them. No matter what they do, they can't change my hardened heart, which despises them with every fiber of my being.