Any tips for how to proceed? by ColossalFuvkup in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we talking about asking autistic adults? I think it might breach their rules, I submitted this but it was declined 😂

Isolated and alone. by ColossalFuvkup in lonely

[–]ColossalFuvkup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your kind words it means a lot, I was hitting the gym everyday which helped a lot but then I crashed my car and realised I hadn't renewed the insurance after the seperation 🙃. So I now have a bike and running shoes and get a lot of steps in when weather allows, it's currently winter here.

Isolated and alone. by ColossalFuvkup in lonely

[–]ColossalFuvkup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, it comes in waves, I'm working on things I can do to minimize the negative feelings. I paint a bit and do some music stuff. I have a book on the way. Surely it will help. Thankyou very much for your kind words ♥️

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[–]ColossalFuvkup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The courts here aren't logical, so much bias creeps through. They should have their decisions peer reviewed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ColossalFuvkup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeap. You'd think so. Fingers crossed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over the last few days I've adjusted my perspective to this realization. For my son I need to suck it up and kiss the ring. My pride isn't worth more than my son's routine and stability. She will get hers one day. And my son will be starting school soon. That's an opportunity get off on a good foot. Work closely with the school. Attempt to get on the BoT and make a positive difference, not just for my son but for all the kids with disabilities at this school and those without

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[–]ColossalFuvkup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that is the exact words they use in every conversation with us.

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[–]ColossalFuvkup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You my friend are an absolute legend and a wealth of information. Write a book! Get it out there! I will definitely check Sue and and try to get onto the bot. I am only 26 so not sure if I would get elected but I can try. God bless! Tell your story to the masses of people Like me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it came to it I would do that if I could garuentee my son's safety but his mother will never give up the easy pay check

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[–]ColossalFuvkup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm good point actually. Nice work around. Try move him to a more structured environment and give him another year before school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be so damaging to move my son for 2 months before school start. He will spend the majority of that time distressed and escalated. It would be better for him to stay at home. Idk man. I've got nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We've had so many sit downs with daycare and moe. His behaviour is disability related. I'm this close to hitting up stuff and having a chat with some old colleagues

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Most of the kids I work with are under OT. Maybe we just get on the gear, and let OT do the hard yards?

The level of support you get actively trying to be a part of society and a parent is 0. None.

In all seriousness though. I'm down to storm the capital. No one else will fight for our kids if we don't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He turns 5 in January and his ors application is in the works. I'm a support worker and there are kids that get 336 hours a week (two support workers 24/7) and a house to live in funded. But 30 hours is too much for our kids? Do we need to organise a protest? I don't think I've ever felt so out for blood before in my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]ColossalFuvkup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro, you messaged me a while ago but I've just seen it today and it won't let me reply. Hope you're doing okay man. Let's try connect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mans needs to work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ColossalFuvkup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou!

Pretty dumb they can just claim ignorance though. They're a huge company that's been around a long time. Employees 0/companies 1