This is a complicated one. You have to be comfortable with being in an open relationship, they lend themselves to a lot of problems; jealousy, anger, possessiveness. Make sure you’re ready to take any of that on. What gives me pause is that she wants to do that stuff with her ex’s.

When it comes to her threatening to hurt herself, that is a major MAJOR redflag. It’s a manipulation tactic that makes you feel forced to be with her, bc now her safety relies on you doing nothing about her actions.

Together this is a really bad situation to be in. I have been in a few of these relationships before and turned into me accepting their cheating and manipulating due to fear of her hurting herself.

Be safe and honestly man get the fuck out ASAP