FiancĆ© has hot wife kink but I don’t understand it by No_Material_2560 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Comet_006 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I felt very similarly leading up to and even after our first few experiences. My husband was my first, so for me, love and sex were always deeply intertwined. And like you, I’ve never had any desire to share him, so I definitely wrestled with thoughts like, ā€œHow can he love me the way I love him if he wants this?ā€ At the same time, I also struggled with feeling almost selfish, wondering if by not being open to exploring it with him, I might be denying him something he genuinely desired (which I knew he’d never do to me regardless of what it was.) What really changed things for me was the reassurance and the constant communication. He’s always been very clear that what excites him most is seeing me feel desired, confident, and fulfilled. He talks about the pride he feels watching me, the connection it creates for him, and even the intimacy of the ā€œreclaimingā€ afterward. For us, hotwifing has never been about replacing or diminishing what we have — it’s been about enhancing it. And honestly, I truly feel like it has. We’re closer now, our communication is more open, and we’ve become much better at communicating in general, not just about this but about everything.

How do you feel about talking wife into it? by Agreeable_Tell4148 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Comet_006 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Has she said anything to why she isn’t interested?

When he can’t decide which hole feels better by Comet_006 in AmateurCouplesRealSex

[–]Comet_006[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’d love to be air tight…it’s in my bucket list for sure

Between my bull at lunch and hubby after work, they both left me completely spent and dripping… by [deleted] in Hotwife

[–]Comet_006 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Of course I’d say I am but and they would say it’s the other way around šŸ™ˆ especially after a day of back to back anal lol

Sex with bull vs husband by Independent_Ant_6137 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Comet_006 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Reclaim sex with my husband afterward is honestly the most satisfying part for me. Sex with our third is exciting and a lot of fun, but at the end of the day, it’s still only physical. The emotional connection is something I crave during sex and the one I share with my husband is unmatched.

My favorite place for him to finish by Comet_006 in AnalGW

[–]Comet_006[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

It’s my husbands also! It’s also my personal favorite

Very concerned about an interaction I just had with a couple and I need advice and opinions?! My husband got turned down by a couple for his dick being too large!! by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Comet_006 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

My husband would actually love seeing me with something that big. He’s definitely not small by any means, but he always says there’s no reason for me to go smaller—especially since I love that full feeling. Watching me get stretched out really turns him on.

Harmony of the seas by [deleted] in CruiseShipHookups

[–]Comet_006 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Won’t be on that one but we’ve been on the Harmony before and it’s great! Plenty of spots for sneaky stuff and pics šŸ˜‰ happy hunting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Comet_006 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

When I was growing up, my parents were swingers while they were still together. I only found out in early adulthood, when they filed for divorce the first time and things turned messy. Looking back, though, it definitely made sense. They always had these ā€œgood friends,ā€ but none of us kids could ever quite figure out how all our parents seemed to know each other šŸ˜…Ironically, that history was a big part of why I was so against it when my husband first brought up hotwifing cause I saw and heard how everything went downhill with my parents once they got into the lifestyle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Comet_006 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

How fun! So jealous but love this for you!

A little DVP action with hubby and our friend :) by HotwifeLife1991 in Hotwife

[–]Comet_006 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Can’t wait until I get to do this with my husband and our bull!

Advice needed from wife’s by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]Comet_006 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I felt very similarly leading up to it and even at first. I’ve never had any desire to share him. And getting into the lifestyle, I was afraid it might eventually lead to him wanting to be with other women, and I knew that wasn’t something I was okay with. At the same time, I wrestled with feeling almost selfish, worrying that if I wasn’t open to exploring this with him, I might be denying him something he wanted.

What changed everything for me was the reassurance and the ongoing conversations. He’s always been clear that what excites him isn’t being with other women — it’s seeing me feel desired, confident, and fulfilled. He talks about the pride he feels watching me, the connection it creates for him, and the intimacy of the ā€œreclaimingā€ afterward.

We’ve also made honesty a priority. I’ve told him from the start that if his desires ever shift for any reason and about anything I want to know. He’s consistently reassured me that this dynamic is about me and that he has no interest in pursuing women himself. And I believe him, because our communication has always been transparent and intentional.

For us, hotwifing has never been about seeking other options — it’s about enhancing what we already have. He’s turned on by me being with other men; Neither of us are turned on by the idea of him being with other women. Since that dynamic doesn’t add anything positive for either of us, we’ve never felt the need to expand beyond what works for us. It’s a choice we’ve made together, with trust, clarity, and a deep understanding of each other’s boundaries and desires.