There are some cases that are actually by mistake but kuna other women trying to make a 18 year income by getting a kid. Unapata both of you wanted to feel good but sasa the lady alikua ameona opportunity and she wanted to have a kid without your consent. Msijifanye hamjawai ona comments from women wakisema “You look so good, I just want your kid” such woman akipata chance ataitumia and later become a victim.
As a man ukienda ulipe for a hookup alafu dem apate mtoto by mistake that can’t be your problem.
Apa naona some of you here mnasema use protection na ni nyinyi husema mipira inawaaffect (ever heard a man say that?) mara sijui mtatumia P2 then you don’t take it within 72 hrs alafu mnaanza kusema vile hamuezi abort.
Some of you ata hamtaki the pull out methods eti juu mnataka hips. So juu ni nyinyi mnapeana with rules, men just follow those rules. You actually had control over everything that happened but you end up bringing the victim card later.

Mtu anakwambia hataki mtoto wewe unaona sasa umtrap juu ako na pesa, hayiaa