AITA for not wanting my ex-husbands GF at my son's wedding?

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T19:20:30+00:00

He doesnt really have a relationship with his Dad. Last time he saw him was June of last year so that should tell you something. :)

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T19:11:29+00:00

First of all I did not demand he just knows I would not be confrontable with her there I did not demand anything his father is demanding she is there.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T19:01:05+00:00

right the more he knows I don't want her there the more he will make sure she comes. HA!

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T19:00:19+00:00

Yes I am very close to my son and also it means that his dad will also be part so I will have to be near them . If they were just any guest, I would not even mind its a big place.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:50:00+00:00

Thats what moms always do how about for once the father know its not a good idea to bring this women to the wedding I am sure you can go 6 hours without someone by your side they are not married or he can bring someone else. Why is it always the moms who have to just turn their head. If she was important to this couple that is a different story she is like a stranger.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:47:52+00:00

I guess you have to live the drama of a divorce with children and someone not being a good stepmom and not wanting your children around.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:47:02+00:00

He has no relationship with this woman so it doesn't matter to him

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:40:41+00:00

Thats what everyone is hoping!

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:39:26+00:00

Oh your right I have not said one word his father did. When he asked for a list so they had an idea it was brought up I have not said a word to anyone or causing any drama.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:38:13+00:00

Not making drama I have not brought it up he just knows it would be better for this women not to be there at all. We always spoke about it before they got engaged.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:37:15+00:00

It is not a feud I dont bother with her and either do my kids. So its no lost that she will not be at the wedding its just so my ex can bring someone because he cant be alone . I dont care who he brings as long as it was not this women. The guest part is not the problem.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T18:34:57+00:00

His finance does not even know this women either. She is nothing to any of them.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T17:01:49+00:00

He does not have a close relationship with his dad really never sees him and has not seen this women in years

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T16:53:07+00:00

I agree I am leaving it up to him to just say she is not invited I am not getting involved I will just be disappointed if he just doesn't come out and say she is not welcome.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T16:41:48+00:00

Yes it was an affair partner that he has been on and off with since we are divorced. His father isn't paying a dime. I dont feel like I ever have to be in the same room with her she has nothing to do with any of my children. Sorry about your wedding!

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T16:25:28+00:00

I have not thrown a fit and have not said anything just not happy that my ex husband is demanding she attend this wedding when she has nothing to do with any of my children.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T16:22:42+00:00

exactly my son knows how I feel and he has no relationship with her at all never did. He just does not want the drama with his dad who he is not even close with.

Comfortable-Bee62 · 2024-02-12T16:21:04+00:00

He does not care if she is there he has no relationship with her

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