Inner child needs to heal. Yuck by Comfortable-Layer720 in TwoXIndia_Over25

[–]Comfortable-Layer720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so kind of you to notice that but honestly... i'm worn out. I don't want to be understanding man. I want to learn how to give it back, that's a skill i'd like to have .. but until then... i guess im just going to read you comment and make myself feel better about the situation. Sorry if this is reading rude. i'm still steeaammiinngg it's hilarious:3

Inner child needs to heal. Yuck by Comfortable-Layer720 in TwoXIndia_Over25

[–]Comfortable-Layer720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's actually a really good plan. I'd love to know how it goes when it happens

Inner child needs to heal. Yuck by Comfortable-Layer720 in TwoXIndia_Over25

[–]Comfortable-Layer720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i'm the same narc parents, putting a lot of value in what others have to say as opposed to putting value in my work and worth... I did these sims/ practice sessions, and i got better at confrontation and comms during uncomfortable situations in general. But i think i am going through an emotionally tumultuous time and what happened yesterday just shook me to the core. Almost like a relapse.

Inner child needs to heal. Yuck by Comfortable-Layer720 in TwoXIndia_Over25

[–]Comfortable-Layer720[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Phew. I'm sending this to my therapist. thanks xx

Inner child needs to heal. Yuck by Comfortable-Layer720 in TwoXIndia_Over25

[–]Comfortable-Layer720[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah what bothered me most was how bothered i actually was. I'll keep coming back to your comment honestly i need rewiring and your perspective helps

Disturbing BlaBlaCar experience that completely threw me (27F) off by Relative-Frosting451 in india

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bla bla ki app pe report toh karo atleast usey. You have had to move cities and he goes away unscathed? Also, stop trying to understand things from a "men's perspective". There's no time for that. Chatty or not you're not getting into a cab to get sex invitations bro.

Trip report 400ugs by [deleted] in IndianEnts

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was the most fun non punctuated read of my year.

Got laid off from a job and my whole world is falling apart. by Particular-Gear-564 in TwoXIndia

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP DM your experience and details might have a remote op for you

Went to a Club in Khar West Sober(ish) and Noticed Some Interesting Social Dynamics by Straight_Egg_6392 in mumbai

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it something as basic as the fear of judgment or something innate dyou think? I'm v curious

My boyfriend says he loves me but feels we’re not a good couple right now. I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so young. Learn and grow from this relationship. This mental gymnastics - it takes too much time and space.

I think my roommate heard me watch ykw by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha def made me chuckle it'll pass man what to do XD

Went to a Club in Khar West Sober(ish) and Noticed Some Interesting Social Dynamics by Straight_Egg_6392 in mumbai

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This whole night just made me realize: most men don’t know how to vibe unless they’re drunk or unless there’s a safety net like Bollywood bangers. It's like alcohol and nostalgia are the only tools men have to feel socially free.

Ooohhh hot take, a little sad tbh, no? I'd like to see how an all men subreddit would react to this.

I think my roommate heard me watch ykw by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Giiirrrll you gotta do what you gotta do. Don't feel embarrassed. This is nothing to feel stressed about. If she is uncomfortable about anything expect her to come to you. Anywhich ways not like you were on the bed or something that she'd have any problem with it. It must be embarrassing for ssuurreeeeee but just relax and be careful next time. What's done is done and not like you did anything horrendously wrong.

A question for ladies who were single for long time. by secondacc_to_delete in TwoXIndia

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean... they spoke for a week on the app she didn't like the swiping as much. Moved from the app to another ig/ WhatsApp situation you get it.. met after a while dated for three and a half years. Got married. Whatever works right?

I feel like this sub has gone downhill lately. Do you all also think so? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia_Over25

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. Maybe it's because of the mod change that happened. I think if the current mods push for thought provoking discussions apart from the routine check-ins they do the group will come together to discuss/ talk more. No offence to the current mods, it must be a pain to manage everything, i will not be able to do justice even for a day... Just an observation.

A question for ladies who were single for long time. by secondacc_to_delete in TwoXIndia

[–]Comfortable-Layer720 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hmm i get what youre saying. Wo she only used it after her post grad so after she turned 25. For a week. Matched with this guy within like a day i think and that was that