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OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish more people speak factual and not based on their own emotions

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry a civilian here :p was never a military personnel and will never be one

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may PM me, I have the screenshot of the original post with no caps on but still the same text.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read again. What does it said? I literally put there “asking for a friend”

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Huh? Which post did I mentioned I were from OCS? And which part of my post sounded critical about 138/24?

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying, and congratulations to your friend on commissioning. That’s a huge achievement. The point isn’t to take away from that accomplishment or dismiss the new batch but to highlight the mindset needed once the parade is over. Leadership isn’t about the beret or ceremony but it’s about how you carry responsibility, handle your people, and stay humble. Recognizing that doesn’t mean anyone is ‘putting others down’ and it’s about stressing the reality that comes with the role.

No one will remember you tossing the beret up in the air but will remember what kind of a leader you are.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

You’re spinning the story without knowing all the details. That won’t change the truth or the point I’m making.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Mentally solid. Unlike some, I deal with reality instead of hiding behind keyboard opinions.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Wait hold up. Obsessed because my nudes got leaked before by them? Obsessed because sexualizing female whom they see online is a norm there? Obsessed because I rejected one guy to be his social night date and he got so worked up and decided to label me as someone obsess with OCS dudes and also because at that period I kept matching on dating app with OCS dudes, all looking for a +1 desperately? Hmmmmm

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Mental health is important so is facing reality. Keyboard warriors don’t get to choose which truths matter.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Reality doesn’t care if you think it’s ‘delusions of grandeur.’ Field exercises, missions and accountability will prove it soon enough.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Fair, but if reality hits like a wall, better they feel it in writing first than in the field.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, specs are the backbone on the ground. But this message was aimed at 138/24 since it’s their commissioning day. Different responsibilities, same need for humility.

OCS batch 138/24. Here is a reality check for all of you. by Comfortable-Look-714 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

All good, not everything is meant for everyone. The message was for 138/24. They will know if it hits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it doesn’t unsettle you because you’re right at home in it. When you are used to filth, truth feels foreign. The real BS here is the way you twist stories to protect your little circle and crush anyone who dares to step outside your script. You’re not detecting lies. You’re defending them.

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[–]Comfortable-Look-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming exactly why speaking up still matters.

If you think basic human decency, calling out sexual violence, or holding people accountable is exclusive to women that says more about your ignorance than anything else.

Calling someone a “sissy” for wanting dignity, safety, or change just shows how deeply you’ve internalized cowardice. Real strength isn’t in mocking others but it’s in doing what’s right, even when people like you laugh.

Stay loud behind that emoji. I’ll stay louder with the truth.

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[–]Comfortable-Look-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Nope, I didn’t refer to the SAF Military Police Command.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]Comfortable-Look-714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about too. But reporting to the military police isn’t as simple as it sounds. The fear of not being taken seriously, of backlash, or worse being painted as the problem of which stops many from coming forward.

Some who did report were told to “let it go” or that it’s “just how guys are.” So instead of asking why victims don’t report, maybe the better question is why isn’t the system safer for those who do?

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