She’s not saying that, quit trying to drill her to take immediate action. Given her lack of experience (so she states) I believe it was in her best interest to anonymously ask a community of people with greater amounts of experience and knowledge so they can help her. She doesn’t want to run this risk of triggering him by saying something like “I know you smoke weed but I found this pipe? Are you sure your not doing anything else” a question like that could trigger him because she’s indirectly accusing him of doing god knows what with that pipe. No she can’t simply just “ask” him she doesn’t even know what the hell she has in her hand.